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90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days - Season 8 - Episode 16: Mile High Club
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03My little chef.
00:00:05Oh, babe.
00:00:08Oh.
00:00:09Them pregnancy cravings.
00:00:11Even though we started using protection
00:00:13since we left San Pedro,
00:00:15we had plenty of sex without a condom
00:00:17the first few days I got here.
00:00:20Do you want to take a test?
00:00:21I think we should.
00:00:27The annual income for petitioners
00:00:29for K-1 visa is $26,500.
00:00:33And, you know, disability benefits
00:00:35is not an income.
00:00:38It's easier for me to stay here.
00:00:40We got the Filipino visa.
00:00:42I don't know if I can leave my family.
00:00:45But I don't want to be apart from you that long.
00:01:09I honestly...
00:01:10Up to 20-something years with your fellow woman,
00:01:14this is an abomination.
00:01:18is there a way we can solve this
00:01:34you got that final warning at work and that's helping you out these question marks make me
00:01:40feel like it's super unstable i'm just sick of the peppering and peppering peppering you're
00:01:44flogging the same all it's like because when i get a warning like that when you send it happened but
00:01:49now it's i still have a job okay but it makes me worried that you could be using me if
00:01:55you think
00:01:55that then i would not expect anything less than you wanting to go so please please let me know
00:02:09are you kidding me he said he has a fiance
00:02:16how dare he had dumped me and leave me alone in the desert muhammad standing me up
00:02:21like i'm just so over it this ring and everything that it represented now if i love somewhere else
00:02:55i'm just feeling hangry
00:02:59hangry hangry bear when i'm hangry and moody
00:03:02i see that you want some nuts
00:03:05i feel like a chipmunk
00:03:21i just want to stay here like this
00:03:26yesterday she and i met up with an immigration attorney and we learned some disappointing news
00:03:30turns out i don't make the necessary income to bring sheena over on a k-1 visa
00:03:36and that could take years to build up so the only option for us to be together right now
00:03:42really is for me to stay here so i can get my filipino visa instead but i'm not sure i'm
00:03:49ready
00:03:50to just pick up and move to another country
00:03:55sheena we have some real big decisions we have to make but i'm looking forward to tonight and i
00:04:02really just want to put that down for tomorrow i understand my love
00:04:09i can't wait to you know visit the beaches at least no one's gonna disturb us
00:04:17i'm bringing forth the batangas the province along the south area it's quite popular for beautiful
00:04:23sandy beaches since talking the immigration lawyer causes a lot of emotional stress
00:04:30i'm hoping that some alone time will be relaxing
00:04:33and that it will give me the opportunity to get him to really consider living here with me
00:04:43also looking outside here
00:04:46one thing i don't like about the beaches
00:04:49jellyfish
00:04:50well let's hope that we don't get stoned by jellyfish
00:04:53but turns out i didn't bring the jelly
00:04:57maybe if we have a kind of a special night tonight
00:05:00oh that would be great
00:05:05i'm gonna have to ask you if mom approves about this
00:05:11mom's gonna be there watching and cheering the entire time
00:05:29sheena and i talked about it and uh now not having anybody to kind of hold us back i think
00:05:37now is the perfect time to kind of let our sexual tensions go
00:05:41leave the way honey
00:05:45oh look there's a hammock honey
00:05:47wow this is such a beautiful place
00:05:50oh wow
00:05:55did you prepare this honey this is so sweet
00:05:58i i did
00:05:59to be honest i am quite nervous to lose my virginity and i'm quite excited as well
00:06:06i was like oh wow
00:06:09hey baby
00:06:10boom
00:06:13i'm quite happy because i wanted to give this to the person that who had loved me for the longest
00:06:20years
00:06:21and i think forrest deserved that kind of love more than anyone else
00:06:28oh wait you know what i had to freshen myself i'm gonna get some sexy lingerie
00:06:35hmm okay
00:06:37it's see-through
00:06:42when i was younger i always thought you know my first time would be great and extravagant and amazing
00:06:48and i got older and it wasn't happening
00:06:51i did worry that that's just one of those life experiences that other people just get to have
00:06:57but not me so going into this love nest that i have made for sheena and i
00:07:05i am extremely nervous on what to do or how to do things
00:07:10but i have no doubts that i'm doing it with the right person
00:07:27you're looking so sexy
00:07:29you love my hair
00:07:30what do you think about me
00:07:30oh yeah you look so handsome
00:07:32i got it all ready for you
00:07:34you're so making me love
00:07:39i'm finally getting to be with the woman of my dreams the vixen of the internet
00:07:48i'm glad that i'm getting to give you my virginity
00:07:52and i wouldn't want to give it to anybody else but you
00:07:55you're gonna have to help me get this on by the way
00:07:57oh really
00:07:57oh my god
00:07:59oh there it is
00:08:00oh what
00:08:03you're ready to go honey
00:08:04ready
00:08:05oh yeah
00:08:08we'll wait
00:08:13you're gonna have to keep me waiting
00:08:15here i come baby
00:08:17oh you're super macho
00:08:47i wish i was a princess
00:08:48you're so sweet
00:08:49that's beautiful
00:08:50thank you
00:08:57kind of lost my appetite
00:09:00i'm really nervous
00:09:02it's not something i would do
00:09:04every day
00:09:06in my world
00:09:07so
00:09:10yeah
00:09:11it's
00:09:12it's
00:09:12it's scary
00:09:17you're handsome
00:09:18thank you
00:09:20thank you
00:09:28oh
00:09:28oh
00:09:31is this where we're going
00:09:32um
00:09:33this is a big market
00:09:41okay
00:09:42we'll get our goat
00:09:45last night daniel's uncle was able to talk to the elders
00:09:48and he talked to the chief priest
00:09:51and the chief priest says we have to do a cleansing
00:09:53but first i have to buy a goat
00:09:56two yams
00:09:57and bring money
00:10:02we are going to the makoko market to get the items
00:10:05and then we'll go to see the chief priest in his shrine
00:10:09and that's where the ceremony will take place
00:10:12you're overly dressed
00:10:15this whole thing is crazy
00:10:17but i'm willing to do whatever it takes to be with daniel
00:10:22what are they washing
00:10:23what is that
00:10:26this is what i put in this suit
00:10:28so that's how they prepare
00:10:31be careful
00:10:34my shoes are going to be a mess
00:10:36my feet are going to be a mess
00:10:37it's my case
00:10:38oh god
00:10:40this place is so crowded baby
00:10:42how are we going to find goats
00:10:44the uncle has said in the olden days
00:10:46they slaughtered the goat
00:10:47now they don't do that anymore
00:10:48so now what it's done
00:10:50it must be a female goat because i'm female
00:10:52but the goat gives milk
00:10:54so he will feed the tribe with the goat milk
00:10:56but what are the yams for
00:10:58the two yams
00:11:00it's what the ancestors demanded
00:11:04we don't know why
00:11:08this is what we're looking for
00:11:10they're huge
00:11:11these are the biggest yams i've ever seen in my whole entire life
00:11:14i've not seen it before
00:11:14no
00:11:15we have big yams in nigeria here
00:11:18oh my god
00:11:19this one is as big as me right
00:11:22yeah
00:11:24all right this one we need
00:11:26how much is this here
00:11:28five five
00:11:29five thousand five hundred
00:11:31for one or
00:11:33one
00:11:33one
00:11:34ah
00:11:35it's too expensive
00:11:36but baby we need it for the cleansing
00:11:38negotiate
00:11:39we're giving ten thousand
00:11:41this two
00:11:42yes
00:11:43okay
00:11:44how much
00:11:45ten thousand
00:11:46ten thousand
00:11:47yes
00:11:47so you're giving him full price
00:11:49you're not negotiating
00:11:50you need to negotiate better once we get to the goats
00:11:54daniel is spending my money
00:11:55like it's water
00:11:57he spent ten thousand on two yams
00:11:59and i still have to buy a goat
00:12:01i feel like we were ripped off
00:12:03i don't think daniel's a good negotiator
00:12:07is this where we buy goats
00:12:09yeah
00:12:09yes
00:12:11which ones are females and which ones are males
00:12:13this is female
00:12:14this is female
00:12:16this one is female
00:12:17yeah
00:12:19is she gonna be good enough to cleanse me though
00:12:23what's the price
00:12:25what
00:12:26two hundred thousand for a goat
00:12:28no
00:12:30no no
00:12:32a lot less than that
00:12:34how low would you go
00:12:36how low would you go
00:12:36i'm not paying two hundred for her
00:12:38i'm not
00:12:39baby hold on
00:12:40no you're letting me
00:12:41how much
00:12:41not two hundred no
00:12:43a hundred
00:12:44yeah
00:12:45we are not paying
00:12:46hold on
00:12:46oh god we are not paying a hundred
00:12:47we are paying seventy thousand
00:12:49please
00:12:53oh my god we just bought a freaking goat
00:12:57i have enough money for this
00:12:59but we still have to pay the priest
00:13:04poor goat
00:13:07are you sure this is the right way
00:13:09oh god
00:13:11what the smell
00:13:14everything comes down to this priest and this cleansing
00:13:18he can say that i can't be cleansed
00:13:21and that will be the end of everything
00:13:23i will lose daniel forever
00:13:33where are you taking me
00:13:34just be careful
00:13:36i am
00:13:38this one right here
00:13:39yes
00:13:40oh my god
00:13:42oh my god
00:13:47hold on
00:13:48he's yelling at me daniel
00:13:50where your shoe is
00:13:52i will
00:13:53hold on
00:14:09i have to be dreaming this can't be real
00:14:13damn bitch i want to run
00:14:26i'm about to take this pregnancy test
00:14:28all right
00:14:30should we get it over with
00:14:31aviva is really hoping that she's pregnant
00:14:34but
00:14:34if she's not
00:14:35i'd be a little relief
00:14:37okay
00:14:41babe
00:14:41oh my god
00:15:06things are still like tense between josh and i
00:15:09he came back to the apartment
00:15:10but he's barely speaking to me
00:15:13and after talking to my parents
00:15:15i am just so confused
00:15:18my parents think that i'm judging josh too harshly
00:15:21and like i don't know i am the queen at self-sabotaging
00:15:24but i'm just trying to protect myself and my family
00:15:27and it sucks because my heart wants one thing
00:15:30my mind's telling me another right now
00:15:31and um it's scary
00:15:46you're all right
00:15:48yeah
00:15:50are you
00:15:52yeah
00:15:54i'm gonna get out of the apartment
00:16:01i'm still feeling hurt by elise
00:16:03i'm starting to have a little bit of doubt creeping
00:16:07i know i've fallen for her
00:16:08but i don't want to be in a relationship where i have to explain myself 400 times
00:16:13if she thinks that i'm using that then i could use her
00:16:15and that's not the case
00:16:16and i would never want to use someone
00:16:20it feels like she's attacking my integrity
00:16:25so like
00:16:29last night sucked
00:16:31and i know you've got these worries right
00:16:33but like
00:16:34i don't want you to think that you know i would use you
00:16:37you know or i'd be like your past relationships
00:16:40i'd take advantage of you
00:16:42but that's what angered me
00:16:44you know
00:16:45because it's the last thing i want to do
00:16:47okay
00:16:48i just i really like you
00:16:51you know i feel
00:16:52when you sort of say
00:16:53you know that i'm
00:16:54i'm dependent on other people
00:16:56and i might be dependent on you
00:16:58you know and that
00:16:58you know she gave me a place to me
00:17:00that's her
00:17:03that's weird
00:17:03it's not weird
00:17:04it's weird
00:17:06you know you've said it
00:17:07you've made your point
00:17:09i have nothing to hide with her
00:17:11have you
00:17:11let me ask you a question
00:17:12have you given me a reason for me to trust you
00:17:16do you not trust me
00:17:17not right now no
00:17:19i want to
00:17:19i do
00:17:20then let me earn that trust then
00:17:22by showing you that you know
00:17:23i can look out for myself
00:17:24i can depend for myself
00:17:25i can be a partner for you
00:17:26without having to lean on
00:17:28you know friends
00:17:28or you know
00:17:30please i'm telling you right now
00:17:32please
00:17:34if you can't let me prove it to you
00:17:35then you just don't trust me
00:17:37that's not gonna work
00:17:48i am sorry
00:17:49i do sometimes poke and prod
00:17:52yep
00:17:52that's just a character defect
00:17:53i just don't want this to be words
00:17:57like words are great to me
00:17:59and that's that's that's made me settle
00:18:01in my entire life with every relationship
00:18:03i fell for words
00:18:04and like i don't want to fall back into that
00:18:06like i've been engaged three times
00:18:07like i'm 32
00:18:08i want to get married and i want to have kids
00:18:10and it scares me because i do like you
00:18:15and i didn't expect to like you so much so soon
00:18:19it's good to hear
00:18:20because i didn't plan on like
00:18:22falling for you as hard as i've fallen for you so quickly
00:18:26i don't want you to feel like you've um
00:18:28you know you've settled and i've
00:18:29i've roped you in i've made you fall in love
00:18:32and then i'm some you know i'm
00:18:33i'm useless
00:18:35you know i wouldn't let you
00:18:37feel like you've made the wrong decision
00:18:39i won't
00:18:43like i'm
00:18:44i'm crazy about you
00:18:45to be honest
00:18:48i'm glad that elise is having a little more faith in me
00:18:52the relationship leads to be built on mutual respect
00:18:54and not this sort of toxic takedown mentality
00:18:57that i can see that she's doing
00:18:59i'm hoping that things get better
00:19:01and we just keep building
00:19:02because i do see a future with elise
00:19:03so i think we get that out of the way
00:19:07and then we can just get stronger and stronger
00:19:11well you know what
00:19:13you look really sexy when the wind almost blows your top off
00:19:15i hope it gets a bit windier
00:19:17i go wherever you are follow you this far
00:19:23i go wherever you are follow you this far
00:19:42moment of truth
00:19:43moment of truth
00:19:47okay
00:19:48how are you feeling babe
00:19:49i'm freaking out
00:19:53i am too actually
00:20:01all right should we get it over with
00:20:04i'm gonna go in there alone
00:20:07why
00:20:08because i just want to do it on my own
00:20:11how long does it take
00:20:13i don't know it's in spanish
00:20:14oh my
00:20:18it just feels so surreal
00:20:19thinking about how far stick and i have come
00:20:22over the past few weeks
00:20:23come on let me get a little good look
00:20:25yes
00:20:27a few days ago i was convinced we were breaking up
00:20:30now i'm taking a pregnancy test
00:20:32so much has happened but i'm leaving in less than two days
00:20:36and i have a lot of mixed emotions
00:20:38i would love to find out that i'm pregnant and get this incredible news but
00:20:44leaving stick is gonna be really difficult
00:20:48after this i might be no drinking no partying none
00:20:52for you too
00:20:53no no no no
00:20:56if it says positive i gotta celebrate later on
00:21:02i would be excited about all this
00:21:03we would make like beautiful kids
00:21:06and i would love to have a son
00:21:08and by the grace of god
00:21:10he just like he wants to sing
00:21:13i'm not saying he has to be an artist because that's you know what i did
00:21:16nothing like that
00:21:18i'm scared
00:21:21all right
00:21:22we'll do your thing
00:21:23okay
00:21:25i just like boys because i know they're like mama's boys and they
00:21:30it's gonna be daddy's what are you talking about
00:21:32no no the girls i always favor the dad
00:21:34that's what i heard
00:21:35boys always favor the mom
00:21:36that's what i heard
00:21:36i've seen it
00:21:36not to sound bad but i don't want the sims of my past to fall on me so i'm scared
00:21:41to have a daughter
00:21:42i don't want to have to kill anybody
00:21:46whatever gives me baby fever
00:21:57i really want to know now before i leave i don't want to find out when i'm back in
00:22:01arizona without him because that would suck for him and me
00:22:09even though we only had unprotected sex for i don't know four to five days
00:22:16i still just feel like i might be pregnant
00:22:20i just have that feeling
00:22:25babe
00:22:26how's it going are you done
00:22:28not yet
00:22:30be patient
00:22:34here goes nothing
00:22:36moment and truth
00:22:54bro my palms are sweaty
00:22:58i can tell that she's really hoping that she's pregnant
00:23:00if she is i'm gonna be right by her side
00:23:03but
00:23:04honestly if she's not pregnant
00:23:06i'd be a little relief
00:23:10babe
00:23:10oh my god
00:23:16okay
00:23:19una y cinco minutos
00:23:21so you gotta wait one to five minute
00:23:24right now i don't think we're ready
00:23:28so it's a little scary
00:23:30if there's one line it's negative
00:23:31two it's positive
00:23:35hello
00:23:44i feel like so much has happened in the last couple days
00:23:47i think this has shown me i just want something different
00:23:50i'll just be a few minutes
00:23:53before i leave morocco
00:23:55there's just one last thing that i need to take care of
00:24:21oh thank you
00:24:22sorry i have a lot of stuff
00:24:27thank you so much
00:24:44yesterday was another emotional day for me
00:24:48i got stood up
00:24:50by muhammad
00:24:51i am single
00:24:53i have no reason to be in morocco anymore
00:24:55and i'm ready to go home
00:24:59i just know that
00:25:00this wasn't meant for me
00:25:04i feel like so much has happened in the last couple days
00:25:07and i think the best thing to do in this moment
00:25:10is to just get back home as soon as possible
00:25:14so i am flying back
00:25:16to the u.s
00:25:17today
00:25:46last night
00:25:47he just had me running around morocco
00:25:50and jumping through hoops for him
00:25:52like i always used to do in the past
00:25:53and i fell for it
00:25:57i feel kind of dumb getting ditched by muhammad
00:26:01but at least now i don't have to wonder about any more what ifs
00:26:05that door is closed forever
00:26:14i'll just be a few minutes
00:26:16but before i leave morocco
00:26:18there's just one last thing that i need to take care of
00:26:34hi
00:26:35i really want to leave morocco in peace
00:26:40after both of these failed relationships
00:26:43so when i changed my flight
00:26:45i decided to let ziad know
00:26:48and he actually agreed to meet me to say goodbye
00:26:56good morning
00:26:58how are you
00:27:00okay how are you
00:27:02fine
00:27:04this day you're gonna travel to your country
00:27:07yeah
00:27:09so
00:27:11i wish you a good word
00:27:14and
00:27:15that's all what i have to say
00:27:16so
00:27:16you don't want to say sorry for anything
00:27:19me
00:27:20mm-hmm
00:27:21to me we should say sorry
00:27:23i mean i think we both have things to apologize for
00:27:27come on
00:27:27what do you want to find out
00:27:32i'm hurt with what happened
00:27:35i came here because i loved you
00:27:37and because i wanted to be with you
00:27:40did you ever love me
00:27:44before you come here i was in love with you really yeah
00:27:47but when you come here we see each other in the reality how we are
00:27:51everything about us it's not work
00:27:56i'm really sorry
00:27:59it's fine
00:27:59okay
00:28:03okay well thanks for everything
00:28:06thanks for you too
00:28:08so
00:28:09yeah
00:28:10that's all
00:28:13okay
00:28:18bye
00:28:19goodbye
00:28:44talking to him didn't make me feel better
00:28:47it's almost like it doesn't matter to him
00:28:50i was just expecting him to care a little bit more
00:28:56this has definitely been a learning experience
00:28:59i think this has shown me and taught me what i don't want
00:29:02in a relationship
00:29:09thank you so much
00:29:15thank you
00:29:16thank you
00:29:18thank you
00:29:18thank you very much
00:29:19hello
00:29:23i want to go home
00:29:24and focus on becoming the best version of me
00:29:31how many bags
00:29:32three
00:29:33a lot of makeup
00:29:34here you go
00:29:35thank you so much
00:29:39but
00:29:41i'm not giving up on my search for love
00:29:42i'm a hopeless romantic
00:29:44i love love
00:29:46and
00:29:47no matter how many times people have left me or dumped me
00:29:50that's never gonna stop me because
00:29:52i know true love is real
00:29:55and i know somewhere in the world
00:29:57my person does exist
00:29:59who's happy to be with me
00:30:03and i know that i'm gonna find it
00:30:05i know i'm gonna find it
00:30:07and
00:30:08um
00:30:10i'm not gonna stop until i do find it
00:30:13because i know it's out there
00:30:16and this isn't the end of my journey
00:30:20and you never know
00:30:21it could happen tomorrow
00:30:25or on the plane
00:30:30maraca it's been real
00:30:31a lot of ups and downs
00:30:33but
00:30:34i'm ready to go home
00:30:37i'm ready
00:30:38so
00:30:39goodbye maraca
00:30:46this is the water
00:30:48let's do this
00:30:50i'm making a real effort here
00:30:52to fit in
00:30:56you never had a washing machine
00:30:59remember you called me boozy
00:31:01i'm not boozy
00:31:02i think i gotta take that back
00:31:06my wife-to-be
00:31:07had an affair with her fellow woman
00:31:13woman
00:31:14is it true what your husband said
00:31:17yes
00:31:18this is totally sacrilege
00:31:22the prison is over
00:31:46i love the door
00:31:52yeah
00:31:53yes
00:31:54yes
00:31:55that's it
00:31:56i can do some squats with this
00:32:08oh
00:32:09oh
00:32:10it's not one time
00:32:10okay
00:32:11all right
00:32:15it's my second day
00:32:17with trisha's family
00:32:18and i've been trying to make myself useful today
00:32:22helping around the house
00:32:24this is the water
00:32:28all right
00:32:29let's see
00:32:30let's do this
00:32:33how often you do this
00:32:35every day or
00:32:37you watch every day
00:32:39you cook every day
00:32:41oh
00:32:41cook every day
00:32:43you gotta get the water for laundry
00:32:45for cooking everything
00:32:48i'm making a real effort here
00:32:50to fit in
00:32:51to you know
00:32:52do some of the chores that they do
00:32:54here's my shoulder
00:32:55oh
00:32:56oh
00:32:57oh
00:32:57oh
00:32:57oh
00:32:57oh
00:32:58oh
00:32:58oh
00:32:58oh
00:32:59oh
00:33:00oh
00:33:00oh
00:33:02man
00:33:03hey babe
00:33:06check out your man, baby
00:33:10you're good
00:33:11put it in there
00:33:13bring the water here
00:33:14okay
00:33:15thank you for showing me where the water was
00:33:17let me show Channick
00:33:19show them
00:33:24that's it
00:33:25is this enough of my soap here
00:33:27yeah
00:33:28you have to
00:33:33it's gonna take forever
00:33:35i think
00:33:37this is easier
00:33:39i've never washed my clothes to the machine
00:33:43babe, are you serious?
00:33:44you never had a washing machine?
00:33:46we never had one
00:33:48you even do this in Tana, huh?
00:33:50yeah
00:33:50even in Tana
00:33:51i'm doing this
00:33:55remember you called me boozy
00:33:56i'm not boozy
00:33:58man
00:33:58i think i gotta take that back now
00:34:01i know you be doing this
00:34:05man
00:34:08so how was with my dad?
00:34:11did you understand each other?
00:34:13oh yeah
00:34:14but we didn't talk about anything serious
00:34:18he didn't talk about babies
00:34:20or i don't know
00:34:22nah
00:34:22i thought it was best just to
00:34:24leave that subject alone for now
00:34:29he's not gonna leave the subject alone
00:34:32he's really, really worried about the baby more than i thought
00:34:41so
00:34:41you should not
00:34:43take a long time
00:34:45he wants that you should decide it before
00:34:49here you go
00:34:53what do you think your dad would do if i, if i don't come up with an answer
00:34:57about it
00:34:58in the next couple days
00:35:00what
00:35:03i don't know rick
00:35:04but it's not just my dad
00:35:07to me
00:35:08having a baby
00:35:10it means a lot
00:35:11i want the mother-child relationship that i didn't get to have
00:35:17you know
00:35:20my mom
00:35:21she left for
00:35:24another person
00:35:29when i was
00:35:31one years old
00:35:33my parents break up
00:35:36and
00:35:37my mom
00:35:38found
00:35:39another man
00:35:40in my culture
00:35:42when
00:35:44two people
00:35:45broke up
00:35:46and
00:35:47they have
00:35:48child
00:35:48together
00:35:49and
00:35:51the girl
00:35:51decided
00:35:52to
00:35:53marry
00:35:55with
00:35:55another man
00:35:56she cannot
00:35:57touch the baby
00:35:59she cannot
00:36:00see the baby
00:36:01unless
00:36:03her husband
00:36:04buy
00:36:05animals
00:36:06and
00:36:06she has to
00:36:07cut
00:36:08the
00:36:09throat
00:36:09the blood
00:36:11they put it here
00:36:12on the
00:36:13babies
00:36:14my mom
00:36:15didn't
00:36:16do it
00:36:17after she
00:36:17left us
00:36:18because
00:36:19her husband
00:36:20didn't
00:36:21accept
00:36:22for doing
00:36:23it
00:36:23so she
00:36:25left me
00:36:26with my
00:36:26dad
00:36:29she
00:36:30she just
00:36:30followed
00:36:31the guy
00:36:32but she
00:36:33didn't care
00:36:40wash
00:36:41wash
00:36:41wash
00:36:41your clothes
00:36:43wash
00:36:44your clothes
00:36:45I know
00:36:46I know
00:36:48I'm not used
00:36:49to talk
00:36:50about my
00:36:50mom because
00:36:51she makes me
00:36:52a little bit
00:36:53upset like
00:36:54how
00:36:55she could
00:36:56not
00:36:56love
00:36:58a baby
00:36:58it's cute
00:37:00though
00:37:02she
00:37:02left
00:37:03I was
00:37:03just
00:37:03one
00:37:04years
00:37:04old
00:37:05and
00:37:05I know
00:37:05you're
00:37:06precious
00:37:06you
00:37:10had a
00:37:11daddy
00:37:12that loves
00:37:13you
00:37:13more than
00:37:15that's
00:37:15why
00:37:15I want
00:37:16I want
00:37:17to make
00:37:18them happy
00:37:18they want
00:37:19grandchild
00:37:22I think
00:37:23that Trish
00:37:24is trying
00:37:25to fill
00:37:25a void
00:37:26and I
00:37:27want her
00:37:27to heal
00:37:28and have
00:37:29the life
00:37:29that she's
00:37:30envisioning
00:37:31she deserves
00:37:32to be a
00:37:32mom
00:37:33and I
00:37:34don't ever
00:37:34want to
00:37:34take that
00:37:35away from
00:37:35her
00:37:36but at
00:37:37the same
00:37:38time
00:37:38I'm not
00:37:39even
00:37:40financially
00:37:40prepared
00:37:41right now
00:37:42to have
00:37:43another
00:37:43child
00:37:44my worst
00:37:45fear
00:37:46is
00:37:46to lose
00:37:47Trish
00:37:47and it
00:37:49hurts me
00:37:49to think
00:37:50that I
00:37:51might have
00:37:51to let
00:37:52her go
00:38:04hi
00:38:04you look
00:38:05sexy
00:38:06driving
00:38:06that boat
00:38:08today
00:38:09Josh is
00:38:09taking me
00:38:10out on
00:38:10one of
00:38:10his
00:38:10company's
00:38:11boats
00:38:11but he
00:38:12got a
00:38:12final warning
00:38:13because he
00:38:14took out
00:38:14a boat
00:38:15for a
00:38:15joyride
00:38:16and crashed
00:38:16it
00:38:17I have
00:38:17so many
00:38:17questions
00:38:18this whole
00:38:19boat thing
00:38:19is just
00:38:19super
00:38:20confusing
00:38:20to me
00:38:20squared
00:38:21away
00:38:21so
00:38:22you
00:38:22can
00:38:22be
00:38:23at
00:38:23ease
00:38:23and
00:38:23put
00:38:23it
00:38:23rest
00:38:25Joshua
00:38:25it was
00:38:26$20,000 worth
00:38:27of damage
00:38:27how did
00:38:28you pay
00:38:29you pay
00:38:29you pay
00:38:29for that
00:38:47yes I think I
00:38:48have to poop
00:38:49could you leave
00:38:49just pretend I'm
00:38:51not even here
00:38:51no you have to
00:38:52leave
00:38:52I haven't gotten
00:38:54seven days
00:38:56you look like a serial killer
00:39:18I feel so much better
00:39:20I could finish shaving
00:39:21I sprayed
00:39:22don't worry
00:39:23it doesn't smell
00:39:24I like Chris
00:39:27I do
00:39:28he's a great roommate
00:39:29really fun
00:39:30and he's like
00:39:31a brother
00:39:32that's hot
00:39:34whatever
00:39:36but I'm not dating
00:39:38Chris
00:39:38I'm dating
00:39:39Josh
00:39:40and things have
00:39:41been a little
00:39:42rocky with Josh
00:39:43and I the past
00:39:43few days
00:39:44hopefully this
00:39:45red light mask
00:39:46did wonders
00:39:47I need to get
00:39:48cute to go
00:39:49on this boat
00:39:49we had an intense
00:39:51conversation at the beach
00:39:52the other day
00:39:52but ever since then
00:39:54things are starting
00:39:55to move in a better
00:39:55direction
00:39:56and today
00:39:57Josh is taking me out
00:39:59on one of his
00:39:59company's boats
00:40:01you'll have a fun day
00:40:02out there
00:40:02it'll be awesome
00:40:02it's a fun job
00:40:04well I know it's fun
00:40:05a little too much fun
00:40:08please focus on the
00:40:09positives
00:40:09let's have a positive day
00:40:10period
00:40:11I like that
00:40:12I'll give you a report
00:40:13card tonight
00:40:13okay
00:40:14I get along well
00:40:15with Elise
00:40:16I like Elise
00:40:16but she's definitely
00:40:17looking for problems
00:40:18since she's been here
00:40:20I've seen them go up
00:40:21and down
00:40:21very quick
00:40:22and very fast
00:40:22almost like a perfect
00:40:23little toxic relationship
00:40:26so short term
00:40:27I think it's gonna be fine
00:40:29but long term
00:40:30I don't know
00:40:31I don't know
00:40:42thank you
00:40:43have a good day
00:40:54do you guys know
00:40:55do you guys know if Josh
00:40:56is here
00:40:56he's not here right now
00:40:57no
00:40:58but he's on his way
00:40:58he works here right
00:40:59yeah he does
00:40:59yeah
00:40:59okay
00:41:00yeah that's it
00:41:00that's actually his desk
00:41:01this one
00:41:02yeah
00:41:02should I sit at his desk
00:41:04yeah go for it
00:41:04go for it
00:41:05that's his desk
00:41:06that is where the magic
00:41:08happens
00:41:08hi I'm Joshua
00:41:11you just go down here
00:41:12turn right
00:41:13straight down to the right
00:41:14yep
00:41:24hi
00:41:25you look sexy
00:41:27driving that boat
00:41:29hi
00:41:34hello
00:41:37I know Elise has been a bit worried
00:41:39about my position at work
00:41:40because of some of the mistakes
00:41:41I made
00:41:42of course the main part of my job
00:41:43is selling boats
00:41:44but I wanted to see
00:41:46with her own eyes
00:41:46that I've still got a job
00:41:47and you know
00:41:48she's got nothing to worry about
00:41:50are you ready
00:41:51I'm ready baby
00:41:54it's so pretty around here
00:41:56wow
00:41:56yeah
00:41:58it's a beautiful day
00:41:59and it's a beautiful boat
00:42:00with a beautiful man
00:42:02so when I walked in
00:42:04looking for you today
00:42:05I went into your office
00:42:06and I met someone
00:42:08and I sat at your desk
00:42:09did you
00:42:10yeah
00:42:11did you get some work done
00:42:13no
00:42:13not at all
00:42:15it was fun to show off
00:42:16a little bit
00:42:17I do like being out on the water
00:42:19any chance I get
00:42:20that was my first impression of you
00:42:21when I saw you on social media
00:42:23she was on the front of a boat
00:42:24looking fabulous
00:42:25I think it was on the back
00:42:27actually
00:42:28you were on the front
00:42:30okay
00:42:30he would know boats better than me
00:42:32yes
00:42:34can I see outside
00:42:35yeah
00:42:36I got some champagne
00:42:38smart boy
00:42:39this was like an ideal day for me
00:42:41I'm glad
00:42:46well I'm happy you took me on the boat
00:42:48did you ask your boss or
00:42:51I did yeah
00:42:51and he gave you permission
00:42:53yep
00:42:55before I got to Australia
00:42:57Josh had sent me
00:42:58a text saying
00:42:59he got a final warning
00:43:00from work
00:43:00because he took out
00:43:02a company boat
00:43:03that they were selling
00:43:04for a joyride
00:43:05with friends
00:43:06and crashed it
00:43:08he has to pay back
00:43:09the damages
00:43:10he owes $20,000
00:43:11so yeah
00:43:12I'm happy
00:43:12he still has a job
00:43:13but I feel like
00:43:15what he did
00:43:15was 100% irresponsible
00:43:16I have so many questions
00:43:18and I still haven't had
00:43:19a proper conversation
00:43:20about it yet
00:43:22listen it's like
00:43:23I'm not here
00:43:24to make you feel
00:43:25any worse
00:43:27but
00:43:27this whole boat thing
00:43:29is just super confusing
00:43:30to me
00:43:30so
00:43:31what happened that night
00:43:39Nat and a few other
00:43:40Nat and another few friends
00:43:42they have friends
00:43:44who were going to become
00:43:45clients of mine
00:43:46and those clients
00:43:48who I'm trying
00:43:49to network with
00:43:50and get closer to
00:43:51are then going to come
00:43:52to me
00:43:52when they want
00:43:53to buy a boat
00:43:54so I took
00:43:55them out
00:43:56on one of our
00:43:57company boats
00:43:58and
00:43:59on our way back here
00:44:00so I got a bit too shallow
00:44:02and flipped a rock
00:44:03then I was
00:44:05but
00:44:06you know
00:44:07it could have been
00:44:08way worse
00:44:11it got fixed
00:44:12straight away
00:44:13Joshua
00:44:16you told me
00:44:17it was $20,000
00:44:18worth of damage
00:44:19well
00:44:20look
00:44:20when I first
00:44:21when I first
00:44:22did the damage
00:44:22I thought that
00:44:23it was
00:44:24you know
00:44:24going to be
00:44:24a little bit more
00:44:25damage
00:44:25because I didn't
00:44:26know exactly
00:44:27I couldn't swim
00:44:28under the boat
00:44:28and see what
00:44:29happened
00:44:29but no
00:44:30it was like
00:44:30it was a couple
00:44:31of grand
00:44:32thank god
00:44:32you know
00:44:33and is that
00:44:33paid off
00:44:34yeah it is
00:44:35paid off
00:44:36how did you
00:44:37pay for that
00:44:38well before you
00:44:39got here
00:44:39I sold a boat
00:44:40I sold a share
00:44:41in a boat
00:44:41so that commission
00:44:42did not go to me
00:44:43the money that
00:44:44you sold
00:44:45you didn't get
00:44:45that money
00:44:46it went to
00:44:46that damages
00:44:47so that
00:44:47squared away
00:44:48so you can
00:44:50be at ease
00:44:50and put it to rest
00:44:52I'm still working
00:44:53I'm still got a job
00:44:54I'm responsible
00:44:55I can
00:44:55I'm trusted
00:44:57and I got worried
00:44:58about it
00:44:59but all in all
00:45:00you know
00:45:02I have my
00:45:02together
00:45:03yeah
00:45:05okay
00:45:08well I understand
00:45:08that
00:45:10and I'm really
00:45:10happy I came
00:45:11on the boat
00:45:12but I guess
00:45:13the only thing
00:45:14that's like
00:45:14really on my
00:45:15mind
00:45:16and like
00:45:17putting a damper
00:45:18on this
00:45:18is the
00:45:18gnat situation
00:45:20okay
00:45:21why can't I
00:45:22drop the gnat
00:45:22then
00:45:24I didn't realize
00:45:25she was on the
00:45:25boat with you
00:45:26that night
00:45:26and like
00:45:27this emotional
00:45:28connection you
00:45:29have with her
00:45:29the financial
00:45:30hold she has
00:45:31on you
00:45:33I don't want
00:45:33to have to keep
00:45:34ten times
00:45:35having to tell
00:45:36you something
00:45:36and you not
00:45:37believe it
00:45:38you're not
00:45:38letting things
00:45:39go
00:45:39no I'm letting
00:45:40it go
00:45:40I just
00:45:40didn't
00:45:41it doesn't
00:45:41seem like
00:45:42you are
00:45:42I'm trying
00:45:43to get down
00:45:43to the bottom
00:45:44of this
00:45:44okay
00:45:45let's go and
00:45:45see
00:45:46let's us
00:45:46three hang
00:45:47out so it's
00:45:47just us
00:45:47three
00:45:48and you know
00:45:49hopefully I can
00:45:50put your mind
00:45:51at ease
00:45:52we'll do it
00:45:52tonight
00:45:55okay
00:45:57of course
00:45:58she was on
00:45:58the boat
00:45:59did she pay
00:46:00for the damages
00:46:01should have been
00:46:02my first question
00:46:03I mean
00:46:04Josh clearly
00:46:05still has a job
00:46:06but he depends
00:46:07on Nat
00:46:07financially
00:46:08I'm just still
00:46:09really confused
00:46:10so I'm really
00:46:11glad that I'm
00:46:12going to see Nat
00:46:12tonight
00:46:12so I can get
00:46:13some answers
00:46:14and just
00:46:14finally put
00:46:15this to rest
00:46:30I swear to God
00:46:31I am about
00:46:32to be cursed
00:46:33I am scared
00:46:35this is no priest
00:46:36I have ever seen
00:46:37in my life
00:46:37they will come
00:46:39after you
00:46:51so you gotta
00:46:51wait one to five
00:46:52minutes
00:47:07so
00:47:08two lines
00:47:08is pregnant
00:47:09one line
00:47:10is not
00:47:19there we go
00:47:22it's a pretty
00:47:24strong
00:47:24dark
00:47:26one line
00:47:27not two
00:47:28yeah
00:47:30well
00:47:31two means
00:47:33pregnant
00:47:33two means
00:47:35pregnant
00:47:35I think it's
00:47:37gonna
00:47:37just stay
00:47:38negative
00:47:38I think so
00:47:43I actually
00:47:44feel really
00:47:45disappointed
00:47:45Stig and I
00:47:46have had so
00:47:47much fun
00:47:47the past few
00:47:48weeks
00:47:48we've gotten
00:47:49closer
00:47:50I've gotten
00:47:51to see a side
00:47:51of him
00:47:52I didn't know
00:47:52before
00:47:52and I was
00:47:54really excited
00:47:54to think about
00:47:55having our baby
00:47:56and starting
00:47:56a little family
00:47:58I'm really
00:47:58sad
00:47:59I'm really
00:47:59bummed
00:48:02don't worry
00:48:03I feel
00:48:04more let down
00:48:05than I expected
00:48:06I don't know
00:48:07I thought it
00:48:07would be
00:48:08a perfect
00:48:09end to our
00:48:10trip
00:48:11I don't know
00:48:12if we could
00:48:13you know
00:48:14I just don't
00:48:15know when I'm
00:48:15gonna see you
00:48:15next
00:48:16why are you
00:48:17saying that
00:48:18like you're
00:48:18acting like
00:48:19we're gonna
00:48:19break up
00:48:20when you leave
00:48:20or something
00:48:20that would
00:48:21just I feel
00:48:21like
00:48:23make things
00:48:24happen quicker
00:48:25like I would
00:48:25have motivation
00:48:26to hurry up
00:48:27move
00:48:28instead of
00:48:29go home
00:48:31don't stress
00:48:32yourself out
00:48:33don't think
00:48:34about it
00:48:35so deep
00:48:37it's really
00:48:38hitting me
00:48:38that I'm
00:48:39going home
00:48:39and I just
00:48:39have no idea
00:48:40what to expect
00:48:42without a baby
00:48:43it's hard
00:48:44to know
00:48:45how serious
00:48:46he is
00:48:46about our
00:48:47future
00:48:49I'm
00:48:50worried
00:48:51that after
00:48:51I leave
00:48:52Belize
00:48:52he's not
00:48:53going to be
00:48:54around me
00:48:54anymore
00:48:55and
00:48:55Stig
00:48:56is
00:48:56going
00:48:56to go
00:48:57just right
00:48:57back
00:48:58into his
00:48:58old
00:48:58partying
00:48:59ways
00:49:00I just
00:49:01feel a little
00:49:01unsure
00:49:02about what
00:49:03the future
00:49:03holds
00:49:04and it's
00:49:05giving me
00:49:05a lot
00:49:05of anxiety
00:49:42this is so
00:49:43not what
00:49:44I expected
00:49:45this is a
00:49:46small tiny
00:49:46cubbyhole
00:49:47it is hot
00:49:49the priest
00:49:50is yelling
00:49:50and screaming
00:49:51at me
00:49:51and I don't
00:49:52know what
00:49:52he's saying
00:49:56I know
00:49:57this is
00:49:58supposed to
00:49:58cleanse me
00:49:59from my
00:49:59lies
00:49:59but I
00:50:00swear to
00:50:01God
00:50:01I am
00:50:01about to
00:50:02be
00:50:02cursed
00:50:02I am
00:50:03scared
00:50:03this is
00:50:05no priest
00:50:05I have
00:50:05ever seen
00:50:06in my
00:50:06life
00:50:46somehow
00:50:47he knows
00:50:47when he
00:50:48throws these
00:50:48shells
00:50:49and they
00:50:50land in a
00:50:50certain way
00:50:51I'm there
00:50:51for a
00:50:52cleansing
00:50:52this is
00:50:54craziness
00:50:56who is
00:50:56this man
00:50:58he's to
00:50:59be my
00:50:59husband
00:50:59why are
00:51:00you here
00:51:02I love
00:51:02crazy
00:51:03my wife
00:51:04to be
00:51:05had
00:51:05an affair
00:51:06with her
00:51:06fellow woman
00:51:12woman
00:51:14yes sir
00:51:15is it
00:51:16true
00:51:16what your
00:51:17husband
00:51:17said
00:51:19yes
00:51:22there's
00:51:22more
00:51:23though
00:51:23I also
00:51:24lied
00:51:25to
00:51:25everybody
00:51:27I
00:51:27wasn't
00:51:28married
00:51:28twice
00:51:28like I
00:51:29had told
00:51:29Daniel
00:51:30I was
00:51:30married
00:51:30five
00:51:31times
00:51:32and we're
00:51:33waiting on
00:51:33the divorce
00:51:34of the
00:51:34fifth one
00:51:37this is
00:51:38totally
00:51:39sacrilege
00:51:42in Africa
00:51:44any woman
00:51:45that committed
00:51:46their
00:51:46abomination
00:51:47there is
00:51:48something
00:51:48we call
00:51:48sacrilege
00:51:49it requires
00:51:51I clean
00:51:51them up
00:51:52by the
00:51:53girls
00:51:53directing
00:51:54us
00:51:54we are
00:51:55just
00:51:55the mouth
00:51:55piece
00:51:56to the
00:51:56girls
00:51:58mess up
00:51:59the
00:52:00cleansing
00:52:19give him
00:52:19all of
00:52:20what you
00:52:20have
00:52:20in your
00:52:21pocket
00:52:21that I
00:52:21gave
00:52:21you
00:52:22give
00:52:22him
00:52:22all
00:52:22of
00:52:22it
00:52:22Daniel
00:52:23put
00:52:25it
00:52:25there
00:52:33what is
00:52:34your
00:52:34response
00:52:39you
00:52:40are
00:52:45bringing
00:52:46gold
00:52:46you
00:52:46are
00:52:46bringing
00:52:46gold
00:52:47you
00:52:47are
00:52:47there
00:52:48is
00:52:48another
00:52:48thing
00:52:48you
00:52:49want
00:52:49to
00:52:49do
00:52:52that
00:52:52is
00:52:52what
00:52:53they
00:52:53God
00:52:54said
00:53:02Godis
00:53:04this
00:53:04is
00:53:04your
00:53:04husband
00:53:06Godis
00:53:07this
00:53:08is
00:53:08you
00:53:09leap
00:53:10it
00:53:10after
00:53:10me
00:53:10me
00:53:11and
00:53:11my
00:53:12husband
00:53:12is
00:53:12one
00:53:12me
00:53:13and
00:53:13my
00:53:13husband
00:53:13are
00:53:14one
00:53:14forever
00:53:15and
00:53:15ever
00:53:15forever
00:53:16and
00:53:16ever
00:53:17no man
00:53:17no woman
00:53:19put us
00:53:19under
00:53:20put us
00:53:20under
00:53:21that is
00:53:21what
00:53:21I
00:53:21promise
00:53:22that is
00:53:22what
00:53:23I
00:53:23promise
00:53:23kiss
00:53:23it
00:53:24even
00:53:25to
00:53:25me
00:53:25you
00:53:26have
00:53:26agreed
00:53:29you
00:53:33are
00:53:34crying
00:53:34yes
00:54:03I
00:54:04wish I knew
00:54:05what
00:54:05was going
00:54:06on
00:54:06this
00:54:07is
00:54:07terrifying
00:54:08I'm
00:54:09telling
00:54:09you
00:54:09this
00:54:10is
00:54:10voodoo
00:54:10magic
00:54:12after
00:54:14this
00:54:15cleansing
00:54:15today
00:54:15will you
00:54:16mess up
00:54:17again
00:54:18no
00:54:19it's an
00:54:20agreement
00:54:20between
00:54:20you
00:54:21and
00:54:21or
00:54:21or
00:54:22or
00:54:22you
00:54:23you
00:54:23you
00:54:23come
00:54:24after
00:54:24you
00:54:31you
00:54:31need
00:54:32to
00:54:32remove
00:54:32the
00:54:32wrapper
00:54:34you
00:54:35are
00:54:35presented
00:54:35the
00:54:36you
00:54:37are
00:54:37presented
00:54:37the
00:54:37ghost
00:54:37remove
00:54:38the
00:54:38wrapper
00:54:49taking
00:54:49off the
00:54:50wrapper
00:54:50from the
00:54:51goat
00:54:51signifies
00:54:52that
00:54:52she has been
00:54:53cleansed
00:54:54that is
00:54:55our tradition
00:54:56embrace
00:54:57your husband
00:55:04am I
00:55:05clean
00:55:10what
00:55:11is
00:55:11from
00:55:11today
00:55:13thank
00:55:14you
00:55:17is
00:55:19over
00:55:21thank
00:55:22you
00:55:29i don't
00:55:29know
00:55:29what
00:55:30just
00:55:30happened
00:55:31i know
00:55:32i'm
00:55:32cleansed
00:55:33i don't
00:55:33care
00:55:34about
00:55:34anything
00:55:34else
00:55:34point
00:55:35is
00:55:36if it's
00:55:36enough
00:55:37for us
00:55:37to be
00:55:37accepted
00:55:38as
00:55:38husband
00:55:38and wife
00:55:39then
00:55:39that's
00:55:40all
00:55:40i
00:55:40wanted
00:55:41well done
00:55:44maybe i
00:55:44love you
00:55:45i love you
00:55:46too
00:55:54i
00:55:55am
00:55:55extremely
00:55:55happy
00:55:56that
00:55:56we
00:55:56are
00:55:56cleansed
00:55:58we
00:55:58can
00:55:58go ahead
00:55:59and get
00:55:59married
00:55:59i
00:56:00really
00:56:00appreciate
00:56:01you
00:56:10can we
00:56:11have
00:56:11sex
00:56:15why
00:56:16not
00:56:16come
00:56:16on
00:56:32last night
00:56:33was
00:56:33more
00:56:34sloppy
00:56:36than
00:56:37what i
00:56:37thought
00:56:37it would
00:56:38be
00:56:39i'm not
00:56:40a virgin
00:56:40anymore
00:56:41it's way
00:56:41better than
00:56:42what i
00:56:42thought
00:56:42me and
00:56:43my hand
00:56:43i'm sorry
00:56:44we're gonna
00:56:44have to
00:56:44break up
00:56:45i'm just
00:56:46glad we
00:56:46didn't
00:56:46break
00:56:46the bed
00:57:05sheena
00:57:05i feel
00:57:06lots of
00:57:07weight
00:57:07off
00:57:07my
00:57:08mind
00:57:08yeah
00:57:10last night
00:57:11just being
00:57:12able to
00:57:12touch you
00:57:13and feel
00:57:13you
00:57:14just
00:57:15makes me
00:57:16so
00:57:16so
00:57:17happy
00:57:20it was
00:57:21the most
00:57:21special
00:57:22moment
00:57:22that i've
00:57:23ever had
00:57:24with you
00:57:27i'm just
00:57:27glad we
00:57:28didn't
00:57:28break the
00:57:28bed
00:57:30i'm just
00:57:39tied me
00:57:40out
00:57:41yeah it's
00:57:41like you
00:57:42took the
00:57:42driver's
00:57:42seat and
00:57:42just kept
00:57:43going
00:57:44as of
00:57:45today
00:57:45i'm not
00:57:46a virgin
00:57:46anymore
00:57:47it was a
00:57:48great
00:57:48sensation
00:57:49i never
00:57:51it's way
00:57:51better than
00:57:51what i
00:57:52thought
00:57:52okay
00:57:52way better
00:57:53than
00:57:53what i
00:57:53do
00:57:53at night
00:57:54by myself
00:57:56me and
00:57:56my hand
00:57:57i'm sorry
00:57:57we're gonna
00:57:57have to
00:57:58break up
00:58:01i really
00:58:02enjoyed it
00:58:02last night
00:58:03with you
00:58:03and i'm
00:58:04so so
00:58:05happy
00:58:05and i'm
00:58:05so glad
00:58:06that we've
00:58:07been come
00:58:07to this
00:58:08stage
00:58:10yeah
00:58:10i was thinking
00:58:11about how
00:58:12it'd be
00:58:13before
00:58:13sleeping with
00:58:14you
00:58:14and i
00:58:15thought it'd
00:58:15be like
00:58:16this magical
00:58:16thing
00:58:17like there
00:58:18was gonna
00:58:18be like
00:58:18sparks
00:58:19and fireworks
00:58:19and last
00:58:21night was
00:58:21exactly
00:58:21kind of
00:58:22what i
00:58:23thought
00:58:24well
00:58:25more
00:58:26sloppy
00:58:28than
00:58:28what i
00:58:29thought
00:58:30it
00:58:30would
00:58:30be
00:58:31when
00:58:32you
00:58:32got
00:58:32on top
00:58:33and
00:58:33started
00:58:33going
00:58:35my legs
00:58:36were so
00:58:37i felt
00:58:38like i
00:58:38needed a
00:58:39life
00:58:39preserver
00:58:40to make
00:58:41sure i
00:58:41don't
00:58:41drown
00:58:42it was
00:58:43the best
00:58:4335 seconds
00:58:44of my
00:58:44life
00:58:45no okay
00:58:46i lasted
00:58:46a little
00:58:46bit longer
00:58:47than that
00:58:48but sheena
00:58:48man she
00:58:49went and
00:58:50hopped on
00:58:51top of
00:58:51me and
00:58:52just showed
00:58:53me who
00:58:53was
00:58:53the
00:58:54boss
00:58:54i
00:58:55didn't
00:58:55do
00:58:55oh yeah
00:58:56you did
00:58:56you took
00:58:57charge
00:59:01i'm happy
00:59:02because you're
00:59:02quite gentle
00:59:03you're quite the
00:59:03gentle one for
00:59:04me i mean
00:59:05so i felt the
00:59:06respect and the
00:59:07love from you
00:59:07so i didn't want to
00:59:08hurt you
00:59:09so that's kind of
00:59:10why i kind of laid
00:59:11back and let you
00:59:11go
00:59:15i was to be honest
00:59:17i didn't know
00:59:18how to put a
00:59:18condom to
00:59:19you know
00:59:21but
00:59:22i couldn't say
00:59:23the right
00:59:24there's a lot
00:59:25of learning
00:59:27but i think that
00:59:28we haven't got it
00:59:29and giving all
00:59:31myself to
00:59:31forest
00:59:31i felt
00:59:32amazing
00:59:33it's hard
00:59:34to describe
00:59:36how would you
00:59:37rate me
00:59:37one to ten
00:59:39well let me say
00:59:40around one
00:59:41oh just
00:59:42eleven perhaps
00:59:43for me
00:59:47sex was great
00:59:48yeah i know
00:59:49but the connection
00:59:50that we got
00:59:51afterwards
00:59:51after
00:59:52after
00:59:52is definitely
00:59:53something i was
00:59:54not expecting
00:59:55i just feel like
00:59:56you know
00:59:59the world is
01:00:01revolving around
01:00:02us now
01:00:03yeah
01:00:04it's like a
01:00:05magnet
01:00:08and i really
01:00:09feel like
01:00:09even though
01:00:10we're not
01:00:11legally
01:00:12married
01:00:12we can work
01:00:14out the paperwork
01:00:14later
01:00:14but
01:00:16last night
01:00:17you became
01:00:17my wife
01:00:19you are
01:00:21my wife
01:00:22till the end
01:00:23of the earth
01:00:25and
01:00:27if i go back
01:00:28now then i won't
01:00:29have you
01:00:30and i won't
01:00:30have
01:00:32basically my
01:00:33wife with me
01:00:34so
01:00:35this has
01:00:36made me even
01:00:37more committed
01:00:37to
01:00:38you know
01:00:39do everything
01:00:40in my power
01:00:40to be with you
01:00:43having sex
01:00:44with sheena
01:00:45definitely has
01:00:46changed a lot
01:00:47of things
01:00:48i feel like
01:00:49our heart
01:00:49and our souls
01:00:50are
01:00:51one and the
01:00:52same
01:00:53but i only
01:00:54have a few
01:00:54more days
01:00:54left here
01:00:55in the philippines
01:00:55and i'm just
01:00:56extremely torn
01:00:57right now
01:00:58because you can
01:00:59go and you
01:00:59can be like
01:01:00oh i love you
01:01:00i love you
01:01:01on the phone
01:01:02but it's not
01:01:02the same as
01:01:03holding the person
01:01:04in your arms
01:01:07i'm starting
01:01:08to feel
01:01:08like maybe
01:01:09the right choice
01:01:09is to
01:01:10stay here
01:01:11in the philippines
01:01:13but i know
01:01:14that my mother
01:01:15she's not
01:01:16going to have
01:01:16a good reaction
01:01:17to that
01:01:19it's going
01:01:19to be like
01:01:20a typhoon
01:01:20hitting a hurricane
01:01:21and kind of
01:01:22just blow
01:01:22everything up
01:01:28i love
01:01:29trisha
01:01:29very
01:01:30very much
01:01:31i need more
01:01:33time
01:01:35i'm not prepared
01:01:37to do so
01:01:50do you want to
01:01:52go see the
01:01:52mayan
01:01:52words today
01:01:53yeah
01:01:54what happened
01:01:55you still
01:01:56in a bad mood
01:01:59there's plenty
01:02:00of time
01:02:00gonna make
01:02:01babies
01:02:02stop tripping
01:02:14i'm excited to see this
01:02:16yes it's amazing
01:02:17yeah
01:02:19this is our
01:02:21very last day
01:02:22together
01:02:22on this trip
01:02:23so i want to
01:02:24make it count
01:02:24i want it to be
01:02:25special
01:02:26so today
01:02:27i decided to take
01:02:28aviva to the
01:02:29mayan ruins
01:02:30one of belize's
01:02:31main attraction
01:02:34you're gonna love
01:02:35this
01:02:35i'm gonna be
01:02:36your official
01:02:38tour guide
01:02:40i'm glad we're
01:02:41at this place
01:02:42this is very
01:02:43spiritual
01:02:44for me
01:02:44so i want to
01:02:46experience this
01:02:46with aviva
01:02:59at one point
01:03:01this used to be
01:03:02just like
01:03:02imagine
01:03:02just mountains
01:03:03and hills
01:03:05and somebody
01:03:06some bright
01:03:07mind came
01:03:07and said
01:03:08yo maybe
01:03:08we should
01:03:08check it out
01:03:09and dig
01:03:10and dig
01:03:10and imagine
01:03:12finding all
01:03:13this stuff
01:03:14where's your
01:03:15stage babe
01:03:16front and center
01:03:17go see
01:03:17this is one
01:03:17right
01:03:18back in the day
01:03:19i would be right
01:03:20here
01:03:21performing for
01:03:21and i would have
01:03:22been the groupie
01:03:23in the front row
01:03:23ah
01:03:26gonna remember
01:03:27your daughter
01:03:32i hope you're
01:03:32seeing that
01:03:33babe
01:03:33that i do
01:03:34want kids
01:03:34with you
01:03:35i do
01:03:35want a family
01:03:36this is not
01:03:37something
01:03:38just regular
01:03:39for me
01:03:39not just a little
01:03:40vacay you visited
01:03:41me
01:03:41it's just
01:03:42more than that
01:03:43for me
01:03:44okay
01:03:45it makes me
01:03:46happy babe
01:03:47i love you
01:03:47i love you too
01:03:52i was feeling
01:03:53pretty upset
01:03:54about the
01:03:54negative
01:03:55pregnancy
01:03:55test
01:03:56but now
01:03:57ste and i
01:03:58are joking
01:03:58around
01:03:59having a good
01:03:59time
01:04:00and he's
01:04:01just making
01:04:01me feel
01:04:01so special
01:04:02look at
01:04:03the tree
01:04:04pretty right
01:04:05it's super
01:04:06cool walking
01:04:07around the
01:04:07mayan ruins
01:04:08it's beautiful
01:04:09so much
01:04:09history
01:04:10and i just
01:04:11love spending
01:04:12this quality
01:04:12time with
01:04:13him
01:04:16wow
01:04:19that's huge
01:04:20that is so
01:04:22cool
01:04:23i know
01:04:25people go
01:04:26all the way
01:04:27to the top
01:04:28that is
01:04:28beautiful
01:04:29we should
01:04:29for sure
01:04:30you want to go
01:04:30to the top
01:04:31hell yeah
01:04:31me too
01:04:33this feels
01:04:34amazing
01:04:37i'm full of
01:04:38gratitude
01:04:38at this point
01:04:40we've been
01:04:41through so
01:04:42much
01:04:42and there
01:04:43were days
01:04:44when it
01:04:44looked dark
01:04:44when we
01:04:45thought that
01:04:46you know
01:04:46maybe this
01:04:46is it
01:04:48i'll race
01:04:48you to the
01:04:49top
01:04:49now
01:04:50but look
01:04:51at us
01:04:52i think
01:04:53opposites
01:04:53attract
01:04:54like she's
01:04:55the missing
01:04:55piece of
01:04:55the puzzle
01:04:56i feel
01:04:56like we're
01:04:57a perfect
01:04:57balance
01:04:59and i can
01:05:00see the
01:05:00future
01:05:00clearly
01:05:02want to go
01:05:03to the top
01:05:03for real
01:05:03yes
01:05:04let's do
01:05:05it
01:05:05let's go
01:05:07way
01:05:07way up
01:05:08there
01:05:13baby
01:05:14maybe you should
01:05:16stop
01:05:18i want to tell
01:05:19you something
01:05:22since the first
01:05:23time i met you
01:05:24babe at the
01:05:24airport
01:05:25something just
01:05:26made me feel
01:05:26like you're the
01:05:27one for real
01:05:28I knew I was gonna do this. I know you were scared, but I actually fell in love with you,
01:05:33Viva.
01:05:36And I want to be with you for the rest of my life.
01:05:39That's so sweet.
01:05:41So, babe, will you marry me?
01:05:49Yes.
01:05:50She said yes!
01:05:55That's so sweet.
01:06:00I love you.
01:06:02You're like...
01:06:04What do you see?
01:06:06You got me shaking, Viva.
01:06:09Is this on the left?
01:06:11Left.
01:06:13Hopefully it fits.
01:06:15Yes.
01:06:17What?
01:06:24I've engaged a sting.
01:06:25The artist.
01:06:27How cool is that?
01:06:30You are full of surprises, but this is definitely the best one.
01:06:34This is the most nervous I've ever been.
01:06:36For real, for real.
01:06:38I'm an engaged man now.
01:06:41I've been carrying around this engagement ring for a while, but at first I wasn't too sure
01:06:45because I felt like she was questioning me and who I am.
01:06:49That made me a little sad.
01:06:51But then closer leading up to today, I felt sure in my heart.
01:06:57You still want to go to the top?
01:06:58Of course I do.
01:06:59Let's go.
01:07:00Let's go.
01:07:01Let's go.
01:07:02This is my fiancée, Viva.
01:07:03And this is my fiancée, Sting.
01:07:09You're walking in sync.
01:07:12You've got to call it Spring.
01:07:14I have to tell you it's Spring.
01:07:16Oh no.
01:07:17I'm going to marry your niece.
01:07:23So cool.
01:07:24All right.
01:07:26Babe, there's always going to be people spreading rumors, trying to get into your mind.
01:07:31Forget about all that, right?
01:07:32I got you.
01:07:33We're a team now.
01:07:34I'm not going to lie to you.
01:07:35Okay.
01:07:36Promise you.
01:07:37I definitely believe you now.
01:07:47I love you, man.
01:07:49I love you, too.
01:07:50I love you, too.
01:07:51You make me looking crazy.
01:08:00Okay.
01:08:01Bring the honey before I'm on the Baroque.
01:08:03I love you.
01:08:12Oh, look, baby.
01:08:13That's some bananas.
01:08:13Let's get some for your family.
01:08:15You want bananas.
01:08:17I think your family likes bananas, too, don't they?
01:08:20I like it.
01:08:21I like it.
01:08:27I like it.
01:08:28So the dark green one isn't better?
01:08:30Yeah.
01:08:31This one's better.
01:08:31I'm going for it.
01:08:33Tonight, Trish and I are flying back to Antananarivo.
01:08:41So these past few days, I've seen more sides to Trish.
01:08:45I've fallen even deeper in love with her.
01:08:48But I haven't made up my mind yet whether or not
01:08:52I want another child.
01:08:54This is my grandma used to sell fruits before.
01:09:00This was her stand right here?
01:09:01Did you sell stuff out here?
01:09:04Yeah, like fruits.
01:09:05Oh my god, I just cannot picture you doing that.
01:09:10I know how important it is to Trish and her family.
01:09:14But I think the best solution to this
01:09:18is for Trish to ask her dad again for more time.
01:09:22Trish's dad seems like a nice guy.
01:09:25And maybe they could ease up a little bit.
01:09:35I don't know.
01:09:38I don't know.
01:09:43I don't know.
01:09:46I don't know.
01:09:53Yeah.
01:09:53Yes.
01:09:56No.
01:10:01Dad wants to talk with us.
01:10:04OK.
01:10:05No?
01:10:05No.
01:10:06No, Mandrus.
01:10:07OK.
01:10:08No, Mandrus.
01:10:23What's the knife for?
01:10:29That's the knife for.
01:10:31I don't know what that knife was for.
01:10:33I didn't see nothing to cut.
01:10:41What is it?
01:10:46Oh!
01:10:48That's a wonderful run.
01:11:00You say, how was your vacation?
01:11:03Oh, it's been wonderful.
01:11:05I love your daughter very much.
01:11:08And each day that goes by, I'm loving her even more.
01:11:23That's good.
01:11:36That's good.
01:11:38Mm-hmm.
01:11:51Um, what about your answer?
01:11:57What about the kids?
01:12:04I want to respect your dad's demands for a decision now.
01:12:13Um, but I'm not prepared to do so.
01:12:30I love Patricia very, very much.
01:12:35My nose is well.
01:12:37And not that the problem.
01:12:40About the kids now.
01:12:42No.
01:12:42I need more time.
01:12:46You're a decision today, not yesterday.
01:12:48Now what?
01:13:00You have to decide it yes or no.
01:13:03But if no, they have to hold me.
01:13:09Like, we cannot be together anymore.
01:13:18You guys are emotionally tied.
01:13:20Yeah, absolutely.
01:13:21So why the am I here?
01:13:22Is this just sexual?
01:13:24And she's helping you financially.
01:13:26No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:13:28I can do that one more time.
01:13:29I'm going to leave.
01:13:29I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
01:13:32Do you want me to go ask every single person here?
01:13:35No, no, no.
01:13:35Hey, guys, let me ask you guys all the f***ing questions.
01:13:40This girl's a psycho.
01:13:52Should I have a quick shower?
01:13:53I didn't shower.
01:13:55Yeah, but you don't need the shower, I am.
01:13:58I think you do.
01:13:59Oh, maybe you do need a shower.
01:14:02I'm feeling it right now.
01:14:05Let me show you how.
01:14:08Well, you look f***ing good.
01:14:13Oof.
01:14:14Is this okay for the bar?
01:14:16Or where we're going?
01:14:18I love it.
01:14:19Josh took me out on one of his company's boats today,
01:14:22and it honestly was great.
01:14:24It would be nice if he owned the boat,
01:14:26but, like, driving his company's boat, it's okay.
01:14:29I feel like I got some questions answered,
01:14:31but the Nat situation has not cleared up,
01:14:33and that's, like, the one thing kind of lingering over us.
01:14:37So we set up tonight for us to just all get together
01:14:39and put everything on the table.
01:14:42We can be dirty together.
01:14:43We'll shower later.
01:14:44I feel salty.
01:14:45It'd be two seconds.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:48Got to make sure you shower for Nat.
01:14:52I don't want this affecting our relationship,
01:14:54but, like, Josh hasn't been transparent from the start.
01:14:57He lied about his living situation with Nat.
01:14:59Now I'm just finding out she was there the night he crashed the boat.
01:15:03And on top of that, they text throughout the day,
01:15:06throughout the night, at all hours of the night.
01:15:08Like, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
01:15:12Not, not, not, not.
01:15:14It's like, dude.
01:15:16Like, I haven't, like, looked at the messages,
01:15:18but it's just shady and weird.
01:15:21I need to figure out once and for all what is going on
01:15:24because I am so confused.
01:15:38Just do me a favor, go and kick it.
01:15:40I can't promise you anything.
01:15:46Hi.
01:15:49How are you, though?
01:15:50How are you?
01:15:50Good, good to see you.
01:15:51It's good.
01:15:52Thanks for coming, guys.
01:15:54Don't mind me.
01:15:55I just brought some hand warmers.
01:15:56It's so cold.
01:15:57I'm freezing.
01:15:58It's not that cold.
01:15:59I'm freezing.
01:15:59Hey.
01:16:01How are you?
01:16:02I'm good.
01:16:03I'm good.
01:16:04Busy day today.
01:16:05I bought a couple of things.
01:16:06What'd you get?
01:16:07I got this nice dress.
01:16:10I feel like everyone in Australia wears black.
01:16:14Yeah, I don't know.
01:16:15I love black, so...
01:16:19I really want Elise to see that I'm taking her concern seriously
01:16:22and that I'm committed to building a relationship with her.
01:16:26But I know for that to happen, she needs to trust me,
01:16:28especially when it comes to Nat.
01:16:30What are we choosing still?
01:16:32To you guys.
01:16:33We need to sort of get her to realize that we're just friends
01:16:36and that we can finally move on.
01:16:38We went on the boat today.
01:16:40Oh, DJ, how was it?
01:16:41It was beautiful.
01:16:42Yeah, it was beautiful.
01:16:43And what else is happening?
01:16:44Obviously, like, we've been talking a lot.
01:16:47Yeah.
01:16:47And there's so much to digest, you know, everything.
01:16:50Yeah, of course.
01:16:53I mean, I do feel, like, uncomfortable.
01:16:56One of our problems in our relationship is not you necessarily,
01:16:59but, like, I just feel very uncomfortable about this connection.
01:17:08Every single time I see him on his phone, he's talking to you.
01:17:12You're together all the time.
01:17:14You were even on the boat together that night.
01:17:16He damaged it.
01:17:18Yeah.
01:17:19So what's the problem?
01:17:21You guys are emotionally tied.
01:17:24Yeah, absolutely.
01:17:25I wouldn't want to be best friends with someone
01:17:26if I wasn't emotionally tied with him.
01:17:28But it's not just an emotional aspect to it.
01:17:31I'm going to be honest, like, I'm scared.
01:17:33He's so close financially with you.
01:17:37So I want to get to the bottom of this once and for all.
01:17:41Like, how does it work?
01:17:45What do you mean?
01:17:47Well, he lives there.
01:17:49He doesn't see rent.
01:17:51You help him.
01:17:52Like, yeah, I've loaned money.
01:17:55He's paid me back.
01:17:57I don't know what you want me to say.
01:17:59When people talk about money, to me, it's really icky.
01:18:02Like, that's, I just think it's gross.
01:18:06I just, I think it's weird.
01:18:08I don't want a guy I'm dating
01:18:10and a guy that's literally telling me he's falling for me
01:18:13to be supported by another girl.
01:18:15Like, so why the like her?
01:18:17Is it just, is this just sexual?
01:18:19Because you have an emotional relationship with a woman
01:18:21and she's helping you financially.
01:18:23So like...
01:18:24No, stop saying she's helping me financially.
01:18:25If you said that one more time, I'm going to leave you.
01:18:28We have both said that that's not the case.
01:18:32But then what's your game plan?
01:18:36What?
01:18:36I want to know, when I leave, you are going to go live with Nat.
01:18:39Yes or no?
01:18:44Well, I probably would go back to hers, but it is short term.
01:18:51But I don't want to think of my man living with another girl.
01:18:54Why can I not have a friend and a big female?
01:18:57I think it's weird.
01:18:57I think it's weird.
01:18:58Do you want me to go ask every single person there?
01:19:00No, no, no.
01:19:00Because I will.
01:19:00I wouldn't.
01:19:01It would be embarrassing to you.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:05Okay, let it be embarrassing for me.
01:19:07I don't give a .
01:19:09Hey guys!
01:19:11Let me ask you guys all the question.
01:19:14Am I crazy?
01:19:16Or is my guy living with a girl
01:19:17and getting financially supported crazy?
01:19:24Did you know?
01:19:25No!
01:19:26She's lying to me!
01:19:28That's pretty crazy.
01:19:30Thank you!
01:19:32We've been talking six months.
01:19:33We've been talking six months.
01:19:34They hadn't met until just recently though.
01:19:38He shouldn't be living with her, right?
01:19:40And getting financially supported, right?
01:19:41Yeah.
01:19:41Thank you!
01:19:42He shouldn't be living with her
01:19:43and he's getting financially supported.
01:19:45Do you think that's crazy?
01:19:46Thank you!
01:19:50I mean, is this not crazy now?
01:19:52It could be.
01:19:52Is this not crazy now?
01:19:54Yeah, but I'm having two against one.
01:19:56What the am I supposed to do?
01:19:57You're telling half the story.
01:19:58You're not yelling at a bar where I leave.
01:20:00You're not here!
01:20:01This girl's a psycho.
01:20:03She's toxic.
01:20:04Sorry.
01:20:05You don't know which one you're getting, is it?
01:20:07You bitch.
01:20:08Good luck.
01:20:13Like, honestly, I'm not doing that.
01:20:16She's a psycho.
01:20:17What the ?
01:20:18Who does that?
01:20:19Who yells at people in a bar?
01:20:20Like, she's creating all of these issues
01:20:22that aren't even there.
01:20:23Yeah.
01:20:24Yeah.
01:20:24That's a big red flag.
01:20:26Huge red flag.
01:20:31Hey, Nat.
01:20:33You all right?
01:20:34Yeah.
01:20:35Are you okay?
01:20:36Cute, you guys are together.
01:20:37Cool.
01:20:38So cute.
01:20:39Give me my purse.
01:20:40So cute.
01:20:41So you run to her after this, right?
01:20:43She's both...
01:20:45Do you want to go?
01:20:46All right.
01:20:47Bye, guys.
01:20:47Asshole.
01:20:51I'm just embarrassed.
01:20:52Like, I'm confused as well now.
01:20:54What do I do?
01:20:55I feel like I was falling in love though.
01:20:58But that...
01:20:59I'm done.
01:21:06Like...
01:21:07Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:12I miss you.
01:21:13There's one thing you didn't fulfill last night for me.
01:21:17What's that?
01:21:19Oral sex.
01:21:22My fellow women have been given her oral sex.
01:21:25I am not a woman.
01:21:26I have my .
01:21:29It's major for me.
01:21:34Ready, boo?
01:21:34Woo!
01:21:36Woo!
01:21:38In a couple of days, we're going to renew our vows.
01:21:40And I just can't wait.
01:21:42We're looking for wedding bands.
01:21:45$268.
01:21:48I think he's not sure.
01:21:50I assume you don't want some men mistaking me as, you know, still available, single woman.
01:21:56Take it happy.
01:21:57Okay.
01:21:58Okay.
01:22:00True enough, yelling from the whole bar.
01:22:03.
01:22:03That.
01:22:06I'm .
01:22:08Angry.
01:22:08Angry.
01:22:09Yeah, this one might be a bit broken, my friend.
01:22:11I think it was a massive overreaction.
01:22:13For me, a public embarrassment like that would be, would be, that, that'd be the end.
01:22:22I'm worried I'm going to disappoint my mom.
01:22:25It's time for you to grow up and be a man.
01:22:27Not just following her orders around.
01:22:30My mother, she's always been my safety net.
01:22:32But her meddling constantly causes conflict between Sheena and I.
01:22:37.
01:22:37Did you guys make any plans?
01:22:39Because we are leaving tomorrow.
01:22:43Yeah, I have decided I'm going to stay here and live here in the Philippines.
01:22:50This is our choice.
01:22:53What's that that you just came out of your mouth?
01:22:58Was it okay?
01:22:59Yeah, he's a good guy.
01:23:01But turns out, we're not so good.
01:23:06Something is going on between you and Michael.
01:23:08Nothing is going on.
01:23:09Will you just shut up and listen?
01:23:11Don't tell me to shut up.
01:23:14I don't think that it's that big of a deal that I tried to kiss Michael.
01:23:19BeerCon's massive reaction, that pisses me off.
01:23:26Hey.
01:23:27Hey.
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