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00:00:02Previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:05We thank you for the power of God that's falling down from heaven.
00:00:10God is going to turn this thing around for the good.
00:00:13It's necessary, it's vital that I go to Nigeria.
00:00:16We have to come together and be as one.
00:00:18Whether it's redoing the K-1 visa or just getting married,
00:00:22I know that God will help me find a way.
00:00:26This decision will affect our lives.
00:00:27We'll talk about it when you come.
00:00:30But if I found out something I did not know about Maxwell on this trip,
00:00:34I'm cutting all ties.
00:00:38I know I've crossed some boundaries in the past while, like, drunk.
00:00:41I just want to be really transparent with you.
00:00:45I don't want to be living in a relationship where I'm second-guessing things.
00:00:51I banged both Josh and Mara.
00:00:54Wait, do you want to be with me?
00:00:59He's going to be spending time with my children.
00:01:01All I'm saying is, let's just try to keep things at peace.
00:01:04I'm going to keep it real.
00:01:07Having their father and their soon-to-be stepfather at odds
00:01:11is never going to work for us.
00:01:14I'm just, like, so nervous.
00:01:15Like, waiting for him to, like, show up in those doors.
00:01:22I love you.
00:01:26We will make baby.
00:01:28Uh-huh.
00:01:29This is first gift.
00:01:32Who is?
00:01:33Um, it's Brandon.
00:01:36He's coming right now.
00:01:37What?
00:01:38This is very bull .
00:01:40This is my house.
00:01:42And I am both here.
00:01:48Welcome home, everybody.
00:01:50Do you just not want to, like, talk anymore?
00:01:53I can't.
00:01:56We have this beautiful new apartment.
00:01:58And this is how we're going to spend the first night?
00:02:01I'm not happy.
00:02:03Neither am I.
00:02:04I will not continuously sit back and get walked all over.
00:02:21You never saw my car.
00:02:22To be honest with you, that's going to be the first time
00:02:23that I'm going to be in a BMW.
00:02:25I'm going to be in my BMW.
00:02:27Yeah.
00:02:27Never?
00:02:28Never.
00:02:29Well, inside is very nice, honestly.
00:02:33Yeah.
00:02:34I'm going to put your seatbelt on.
00:02:36My what?
00:02:36Your seatbelt.
00:02:38Oh.
00:02:39I'm sorry.
00:02:39This car is going to remind you.
00:02:41This is something that I need to, like,
00:02:43I need to pay attention here, because in my car,
00:02:45I don't use it, to be honest with you.
00:02:47Aye, aye, aye.
00:02:48I don't know what you say, aye, aye.
00:03:02It's very real, like, you drive, and I'm not driving.
00:03:09Are you overwhelmed?
00:03:10Are you overwhelmed?
00:03:12Are you overwhelmed?
00:03:13Honestly, yes, I feel like I'm overwhelmed already.
00:03:16Hmm.
00:03:17Okay.
00:03:19And I'd be outside the country, and all this role and all these things, like a big chuck,
00:03:24you know, like, wow.
00:03:26A big what?
00:03:27Like a chuck, like.
00:03:28Chuck?
00:03:29Chuck.
00:03:30Chuck.
00:03:30Mm-hmm.
00:03:31What that mean?
00:03:32Like a chuck, like, in pet.
00:03:35Oh, shock.
00:03:36Chuck.
00:03:36Shock.
00:03:37Yeah.
00:03:37Yeah, like.
00:03:40Does it look the same as what you thought it would?
00:03:43Honestly, no.
00:03:45The circumstances are gorgeous.
00:03:47I like the concept, you know, like, it separates the space.
00:03:51Oh, like the space between each other?
00:03:52Yeah.
00:03:52Like, in the art, it's not like that.
00:03:54Yeah.
00:03:55Here is, uh, they have rules with the music, like.
00:03:58Like, past a certain hour?
00:03:59First of all, nobody, nobody.
00:04:00Nobody doing, like.
00:04:01No, no.
00:04:02Nobody gonna do it, like, uh, put, like, a freaking speaker outside the house and, like,
00:04:06No, never.
00:04:08No.
00:04:09Because this is not an area where Dominican people live, because I can guarantee you,
00:04:13like, in.
00:04:14You're gonna be the only Dominican in Bluebell.
00:04:15For real?
00:04:16Probably.
00:04:17So, I'm gonna, everybody is mucho blanco here.
00:04:21Yes.
00:04:24And this is the house.
00:04:26This one?
00:04:26This one.
00:04:28You're kidding.
00:04:29Wow.
00:04:30This is a pretty gorgeous house.
00:04:32Oh, no, no, no.
00:04:32Oh, they have, like, a, yeah.
00:04:34They, we.
00:04:37Your house look like, uh, the Home Alone.
00:04:40Home Alone?
00:04:41Home Alone?
00:04:42Yeah.
00:04:42Like the one, like, ah!
00:04:43Yeah, this one.
00:04:45He's shaved because he's, he's just trying to see.
00:04:47I know the part of the movie.
00:04:48I'm just, forget it.
00:04:49Forget it.
00:04:50It is lost.
00:04:52We're here.
00:04:53Thanks, God.
00:04:55Uh, uh.
00:04:57When I see, for the first time, Marixa House was like, wow.
00:05:01It's like, huh.
00:05:03I never have a house before and not have a house, you know?
00:05:05I never even have an appointment.
00:05:09This is real, like, uh, feel, like, amazing, to be honest.
00:05:15Are you ready?
00:05:17Yes.
00:05:18You bring your bags up here.
00:05:19I want to walk in with you.
00:05:21Uh.
00:05:25Welcome home.
00:05:28Oh, my God.
00:05:33Wow.
00:05:35I can't believe that I'm here.
00:05:37I can't believe that I'm here.
00:05:37You're here.
00:05:38This is your new place.
00:05:39I know we see that in camera, but it's very different here.
00:05:44Now you feel okay?
00:05:45I like the shoes off in the house.
00:05:49Why?
00:05:50Because we don't wear shoes in the house.
00:05:53Oh.
00:05:55So I need to take out now?
00:05:56Your shoes have been all over in Santo Domingo Airport, Philadelphia Airport.
00:06:01It's filthy.
00:06:01You don't want to have all that dirt on your feet as you walk through our clean house.
00:06:06Uh, okay.
00:06:07That's the rules.
00:06:08Do you have dirty socks on or something?
00:06:09No.
00:06:10It's just, it's weird.
00:06:12What do you mean it's weird?
00:06:12You don't take your shoes off when you go into somebody's house in DR?
00:06:15No.
00:06:16Okay.
00:06:16Well, you're going to learn.
00:06:19Immediately that I was inside the house, she just basically told me the rules.
00:06:23And I was like, uh, okay.
00:06:25We'll start now.
00:06:27Now we go upstairs to see the bedrooms?
00:06:29Yes.
00:06:29Okay, let's go.
00:06:33This is the master bedroom.
00:06:38Wow.
00:06:38Yeah.
00:06:40That look like a hotel room.
00:06:41This is like the his and hers closet, but they're really more like hers and hers.
00:06:46So you could have two rods in this closet, and that's all the rest of my stuff.
00:06:55You have a lot of things, to be honest with you.
00:07:04Yeah.
00:07:22So let's go see the bathroom real quick.
00:07:25Because my shower is like my private time.
00:07:27It's like my, like, alone time.
00:07:29Okay.
00:07:30So tonight you could take a shower in my shower, because all the stuff is already in here.
00:07:35So just for tonight.
00:07:36Just for tonight.
00:07:38That's not nice.
00:07:41And in DR, I was always trying like, let me sit in the shower and she said like, that
00:07:46she don't like and that she don't want.
00:07:48Can I explain why?
00:07:50Somebody always gets the cold part of the shower that's not under the hot water.
00:07:54And that's never going to be me.
00:07:56So that's a big strike against it.
00:07:59Number two.
00:07:59Have you ever had sex in the shower?
00:08:01I feel like we have actually at one point.
00:08:03A couple of times we have.
00:08:03It's the worst sex in the world and everybody in the world knows that.
00:08:07It's just awkward and slippery and there's no good way to position yourself.
00:08:11Disagree with me because I'm right.
00:08:13Okay.
00:08:14Happy white, happy life.
00:08:15That's what I say, though.
00:08:15Right?
00:08:32Hi.
00:08:33Oh, hey.
00:08:34You feel better now?
00:08:35Yeah, I feel better now.
00:08:37It's a Monday.
00:08:38You have your new robe on?
00:08:39Oh, yeah.
00:08:40Um, you ready?
00:08:41Oh, my God.
00:08:42You ready?
00:08:43I forgot about that.
00:08:45Hold on.
00:08:46Let me get in proper position so I can, like, absorb the moment.
00:08:50Aye, aye, aye.
00:08:51All right.
00:08:52Let's see it.
00:08:52You ready?
00:08:53Oh, dear.
00:08:55I'm going to bring that for you.
00:08:56A new penis I gave you for you.
00:08:59I'm excited to see it.
00:09:01The first time me and Marisa have sex, and she was like,
00:09:06look in my penis in the moment, you know, and say, like, it's different.
00:09:11I was, like, feeling a little bit weird, but I had my surgery, a circumcision.
00:09:17I'm ready to be an American now.
00:09:21Let's see it.
00:09:23Dun-dun-dun-dun-dun!
00:09:28Oh, my God.
00:09:29It's actually really nice.
00:09:31It's perfect.
00:09:32I know.
00:09:33That's what I think.
00:09:34Thanks, God.
00:09:35Yeah.
00:09:36Yeah, it looks really good.
00:09:37You happy?
00:09:38I'm very happy.
00:09:40Yeah?
00:09:41You want actions for tonight?
00:09:44The doctor doing a very good job, but, like, it was a lot of blonde.
00:09:48It was a lot of painful.
00:09:49It was her.
00:09:50Like, to be honest, it was so hard.
00:09:52I had horrible for a little bit.
00:09:54He was waiting for you for two months.
00:09:57It's been longer than two months.
00:09:58I think so, yeah.
00:10:00Well, I hope, like, she like it, because, like, it's not refund.
00:10:05That's what it is.
00:10:11You want to get that one?
00:10:12You want me to get it?
00:10:13Yeah, because I don't know how to do it.
00:10:15You don't know how to turn a lamp off?
00:10:17No.
00:10:17No.
00:10:18It's very simple.
00:10:19I'm gonna have to teach you.
00:10:20Oh, hey.
00:10:42What up?
00:10:43About time.
00:10:44I know.
00:10:44Sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:10:55There's a man of the hour right there.
00:10:57Yeah.
00:11:02Nice to meet you.
00:11:03Nice to meet you, ma'am.
00:11:06My friend Brandon is stopping by to pick up his pet camera that he let me borrow while I was
00:11:12in Turkey.
00:11:14And Rosh is extremely annoyed.
00:11:18In Turkey, we don't be friends, ex.
00:11:22I think if we just give it some time, that he'll get over it, and maybe they'll end up being
00:11:30really good friends.
00:11:31You never know.
00:11:33Oh, my God.
00:11:36I'm glad to see y'all finally made home.
00:11:38Yeah.
00:11:39It was a long trip.
00:11:40Long trip.
00:11:43You ready for more?
00:11:46We're gonna welcome you to the family.
00:11:49Get the official Alabama welcome.
00:11:51Oh, God.
00:11:52Make sure you're hydrated.
00:11:53We're gonna have fun.
00:11:54Drink a lot of water.
00:11:55Water.
00:11:56Okay.
00:11:57We will see.
00:11:58We'll see.
00:11:59You'll be good.
00:12:00Just keep an open mind.
00:12:01Yeah.
00:12:02Okay?
00:12:02Okay.
00:12:04Meeting him for the first time, there was a little bit of tension, I felt like, on his side.
00:12:11Tomorrow, we are giving him a first-hand experience of life in the South.
00:12:17And he's gonna have to man up and deal with the issue because it's disrespectful.
00:12:24And that's one thing I don't do is disrespect.
00:12:28Where's my pet camera at?
00:12:30Right here.
00:12:31Right here.
00:12:32Here you go.
00:12:34Thank you so much for letting me use you.
00:12:38Munchkin.
00:12:39Well, I will leave y'all alone so y'all can rest.
00:12:42Thanks.
00:12:42And I will see y'all tomorrow.
00:12:43Yeah.
00:12:44See you tomorrow.
00:12:45Ready?
00:12:46Right.
00:12:47We're gonna give you the official welcome to the family.
00:12:49Yeah, welcome to Alabama.
00:12:50Yeah.
00:12:50See y'all.
00:12:51Bye.
00:12:51Bye.
00:12:52Bye.
00:13:19So, first day done.
00:13:22how do you feel i feel mixed baby mixed emotions yeah mr please lay down buddy leave me alone okay
00:13:33with my wife come on no shh baby we can close the door yep it's a little crazy it's a
00:13:41little
00:13:41crazy this is how it's been for me yeah i did i did kid come on oh my god come
00:13:51on dogs
00:13:56come here come come come come go go come come come come come run run fast
00:14:08all right
00:14:11you did it good job good job i can sleep right now you did a good job
00:14:19god say animals live outside what not in the home how do you know back in the day maybe jesus
00:14:27rubbed up on a dog or something maybe he had a dog laying on his feet you never know they
00:14:32must
00:14:32leave outside really that's not gonna happen no but you will see you'll see
00:14:37mm-hmm so i have a question maybe my mind is going to like play my mind
00:14:48you're but i forget his name brandon brandy brandy brandy brandy brandy when i saw brandy my
00:14:58here like going to like how i can stand up stand up yes
00:15:04yes honestly i really don't want to talk about this right now like i'm so tired and i know you're
00:15:10tired yeah i am tired but this is my house your house he the he he can't call you
00:15:21i mean we'll just just take a deep breath men all men call me because i am husband you
00:15:32and tomorrow i will speak with brandy and i will put my secret like line yeah drawing a line yeah
00:15:42i will
00:15:42put my line with brandy i'm just can we please go to bed now we're not 16 and it's time
00:15:53to act
00:15:54like adults and brandon played a big part in being there for me while i was in the hospital he
00:16:00took
00:16:00care of my dogs he was the one that told my family that i was in a car accident
00:16:07so my friendship with brandon isn't going anywhere and i just really hope that rosh can adapt and
00:16:14change to how things are in america give me this question answer now they must call me yes or no
00:16:41i'm excited to get to the other side but this time around we have major decisions to make and we
00:16:48have much time sweetie danica said apparently i asked everyone to kiss them on the lips
00:17:02that's disrespectful to me i've just signed a document for 12 months of who knows what
00:17:09i wasn't trying to be a cheater i feel like i'm being taken for a ride and made a fool
00:17:14of
00:17:18it's been a long time coming but i'm on my way i got some really great news i can't wait
00:17:24to say hey
00:17:28brianna's here asia you still ain't got this man ready so come here you need to help your friend get
00:17:36this mesh to go all right ma go on so we can get this situated okay
00:17:48this is my bag okay this is my carry-on which i have to have on me in case something
00:17:53happened
00:17:53okay and then that's maxwell's bag brianna is my childhood friend and she's driving us to the airport
00:18:03to drop me and my mom off how long since you saw me it's been over eight months oh wow
00:18:09so you're
00:18:10excited to see my man my man my man it's very exciting you really thinking that you could go to
00:18:16africa and come back and marry later yeah like i feel like it it could it could be an option
00:18:22you know
00:18:24i want him to be here but at the end of the day we need to be making a decision
00:18:28right and i told him like
00:18:29i want to discuss this face to face and we really you know just really talk it through
00:18:35now hold on girl you going where to do what with who with somebody that you don't even know
00:18:41getting married in and of itself is a big task and especially marrying somebody from thousands and
00:18:47thousands of miles away that you don't know we don't know your family we know anything about you
00:18:51i hope that she can get the k1 visa so that they will get more time to spend with each
00:18:56other so it
00:18:57won't feel like she's having to you know make a rush decision or do anything that i guess she
00:19:03wasn't planning to do since y'all were denied initially for the visa is there something that'll
00:19:09follow you along the lines i don't know i feel like it's not in my favor what's a legitimate reason
00:19:14for real for them to deny you um they they said fraud
00:19:22how can you overcome fraud
00:19:26this is definitely not the energy i need right now at this point i don't need all this negativity
00:19:33in my head help me get all the rest of this stuff loaded up and i think we're good to
00:19:37go
00:19:38now if the government knows something that i don't know i'm gonna get to the bottom of it one way
00:19:43or
00:19:44another and it better not be fraud
00:19:49mom come on let's go let's go we're gonna be late
00:19:55you ready i'm ready
00:20:00miss juliette girl we got you flying all the way over here to africa are you excited
00:20:07i'm excited just saying where to get married what's the time to lay in your mind for this
00:20:13even if it takes two years three years four years like i'm eating for the long haul when do you
00:20:19be
00:20:20like you know what i'm tired of this for me there is no calling quits
00:20:26if you really love the person i think it's worth the wait i would wait on them would you really
00:20:32i would
00:20:33okay i get on her nerve and she get on my nerve but me and asha have a very great
00:20:38relationship
00:20:39she's gonna make some big decision while we are there and i want to make sure i'm there for
00:20:44her and see what transpired with all this marriage business i have to go on this trip you think i
00:20:51would let my baby go on this trip and i'm not going there with her and she getting married
00:20:56i'm just praying that everything works out for the best
00:21:02can't get out
00:21:12i'm just gonna love me
00:21:16the things you do for your kids i'm chilling okay we're going to the little
00:21:23i'm excited to get to the other side and just you know to see maxwell his smiling face
00:21:28and i'm excited about bringing my family and maxwell's family together for the first time
00:21:33but this time around we have major decisions to make and we only have a few days to make those
00:21:38decisions like we don't have much time
00:21:54at the end of the day i'm standing on god my favorite bible verse is jeremiah 29 11
00:22:00it says for i know the thoughts that i have thanked towards you says the lord thoughts of
00:22:04peace and not of evil to give you an expected end and so i know that my faith is in
00:22:08god's hand no
00:22:09matter what you're leaving me you're coming back so thank you for dropping me yes be good
00:22:16he's never failed me before so he's not going to fail me again so
00:22:26come on mom
00:22:42before we lock this place or leave it can you help me double check every drawer all of them
00:22:49that's really important
00:22:59we have to check under the bed
00:23:05i think we're good today casey and i are moving out of the hotel and we're going to
00:23:11see the new apartment which you know i've got no idea well what to expect
00:23:17i think we need to leave now okay i found a quarter
00:23:22nice it's really hard for me when i have like a time crunch because definitely a trigger of my ocd
00:23:28can you check the bed under the bed on your side yeah i've done it is everything good
00:23:32yeah i mean i've checked everything that i think he's checking okay did you actually check under the
00:23:37bed for real yeah my obsessive thoughts like have different categories but some are like more
00:23:42existential and really hard to solve and some are more like circumstantial like one time i melted a
00:23:49bread of the filter when i was drunk on the stove by accidentally turning on on the stove and like
00:23:53forgetting about it and now i worry about the stove but like to a time consuming amount like i'll spend
00:23:59like five minutes checking it every time i leave the house i want to like get to the apartment yeah
00:24:05i cannot wait to see it i know i'm so excited i'm gonna stress i mean i haven't seen it
00:24:09really
00:24:10i've seen like the building before in the past but when you say you haven't seen it you've like
00:24:14have you seen photos of it i saw a video online they sent me a virtual tour and i skimmed
00:24:20it
00:24:20no i looked at the virtual tour i think i think i actually can't remember it so i'm nervous that
00:24:28we're signing a 12-month lease on something i don't know how comfortable it is but yeah
00:24:35i'm sure it'll be fine you sound uncertain i am i need to fart forever oh jesus i'm going back
00:24:49to the
00:24:49uk it's been nice to do this with you it was really smelly did you smell it i'm getting on
00:24:55the first plane
00:25:01oh okay do you want to concentrate on driving no yes ma'am
00:25:16oh that license plate is like the same number it's fine can you just fix on driving no i am
00:25:22sorry that bridge was just freaking me out that was a normal bridge okay yeah
00:25:30i text danica i asked her if i actually made out with anyone at the essay that's what i was
00:25:36really
00:25:36concerned about and she said no um it's kind of funny danica said apparently i asked everyone to
00:25:45kiss them on the lips before leaving and they all said no so i didn't actually kiss anyone on the
00:25:50lips but
00:25:50i thought you were there or i didn't think you were there i don't really remember it but when she
00:25:55texted me i like it rung a bell that i kind of remember but yeah i'm not remotely surprised but
00:26:08you know that's disrespectful to me
00:26:13i wasn't trying to be a cheater my intention wasn't to like make out with them in a sexy way
00:26:18it was more just i love you guys can i have a kiss
00:26:24i get frustrated when i feel like i'm being taken for a ride and made made a fool of
00:26:29especially when katie is trying to brush off what's happened and and diminish rather than take
00:26:37responsibility that's just i'm not down for that kind of attitude all right we're almost here two blocks up
00:26:48okay can you just take it down one notch please
00:26:53sorry i know i'm really like genuinely amazingly excited good
00:27:00now i'm supposed to be looking forward to seeing our new apartment which i was that was the worst parking
00:27:06job i've ever done but now it's got the sting of her being a dumbass
00:27:14i've just signed a document for 12 months of who is what okay well we're here
00:27:25so the last thing i want to show you is like um what oh that's nice i didn't know that
00:27:32i might go
00:27:33up in a place like this it's fun you don't need to like i think this is something's for rich
00:27:41people
00:27:47i don't know what you're thinking it's something wrong with a signal can you spell it out for me
00:27:56you change your mind like the seasons and since we live from britain can you make it crystal clear
00:28:08hey buenos dias buenos dias mi amor what do we have for breakfast today we're having protein for
00:28:13breakfast of course is it yes i'm not starving
00:28:29just drinking you don't have to like the taste of it
00:28:33cheers
00:28:38you want milk in your coffee si or no milk leche si you want leche
00:28:51i can give you more if you want to i've had my fill of leche last night and this morning
00:28:58too
00:29:03so the first night
00:29:06how was it with your new peanuts did it feel the same for me it was the same
00:29:13it's not better it's it's it's it's it's over the sex is always good with you honestly thank you
00:29:20we have great sexual chemistry yeah yeah that's always been like oh my god
00:29:24the cornerstone to our relationship
00:29:27you want hard-boiled eggs
00:29:33uh what like they're like pre-cooked hard-boiled eggs they're eggs they're cooked
00:29:40the is that you're worried because i'm so weird to be honest with you
00:29:46i'm gonna cut it open and you're gonna see what's inside because i can't there's no way that you've
00:29:51never seen a hard-boiled egg i know but like i never see in the package like this that's what
00:29:55you're talking about americans are into convenience that just take like uh five minutes i don't have
00:30:01five minutes what's up for that let's try one take it it's cold man it's cold it's supposed to be
00:30:10hot
00:30:14that's delicious
00:30:17cold it's disgusting cold it's delicious cold what i wouldn't eat it hot for real true oh jesus christ
00:30:24no oh you have chocolate here not for breakfast not for breakfast
00:30:32like um what oh that's nice i didn't know that
00:30:48it's fun you don't need to like
00:30:52i think this is something for rich people it's like i might go up in a place like this
00:30:59this is very good in my house we don't have hot water you need to use in the stove to
00:31:08get the
00:31:09water hot all the time that me and blondie be in a hotel she was looking at me all the
00:31:13time like
00:31:14edward why should you stay so long in the shower and i was like i enjoy the hot shower you
00:31:21don't
00:31:21understand that so the last thing i want to show you is how to properly make the bed
00:31:26well i was making the bed already not in the way that i like it come on i'll show you
00:31:31jesus
00:31:36come on it's okay i know how to make the bed so it's not that difficult we like to pull
00:31:45everything
00:31:46tight like the sheets so we pull these tight and then we tuck in pull it tight so the point
00:31:55is
00:31:55like you like time understand the point already okay then now we'll take the pillows i admit i'm a
00:32:02control freak but i can't help it i've been living on my own for six years plus and i like
00:32:08things the
00:32:08way that i like them all the lines have to go in the right direction okay other way so like
00:32:13the lines
00:32:13have to be going this way okay wow it makes me feel at ease and calm and peace and just
00:32:22because i know
00:32:22that it's getting done the right way okay yeah okay that's acceptable it's not perfect acceptable
00:32:28acceptable i need to take a class with the house don't you like want to come into the bedroom be
00:32:33like ah my beautifully made bed that i'm getting it today we're going to do something like that
00:32:39you know like you just ruined everything that we just did but like don't we oh my god it's okay
00:32:44it's okay
00:32:47i feel like i'm in the military right now it's like a gesture you know like i never seen nothing
00:32:53of these things like when she visited me she was more relaxed more chilling now she is like okay she's
00:32:59the president and i'm the secretary tie tie tie i understand tie okay good job she's not the same
00:33:08woman like okay this is real life like i want to be on vacation it's very inviting when you come
00:33:14into
00:33:15the bedroom and you have a beautifully made bed you'll see you'll love it yeah it's like a hotel
00:33:25shoot your your phone on my face why i didn't do it in your face no no you do that
00:33:32the woman in egypt
00:33:34should respect the man did that happen with me in egypt with another girlfriend or fiance i will live it
00:33:45immediately baby wasn't with mine for 20 years i think she need to learn
00:34:04never come hello good morning
00:34:11how are you i'm okay how'd you sleep so so i didn't sleep that well either
00:34:21we can grab something real quick i think it'll give us an opportunity to like
00:34:25have a conversation that we need to have okay i'm gonna raise my voice i'm gonna raise my gate
00:34:35i'm gonna raise my hands up to the head it's gonna make me i'm gonna stand up strong
00:34:52and can i get a soda with the ice please sure thing got that for you yesterday in the moving
00:34:59truck
00:34:59mino and i got into a huge fight he asked me to take a video of him but i accidentally
00:35:04took a photo
00:35:05instead he refuses to communicate which is so immature i am not his freaking paparazzi
00:35:22that's pretty good
00:35:30you can't get mad when i don't when i make a mistake like you wanted me to take a video
00:35:37and it
00:35:38ended up being a photo i didn't do it on purpose i'm not angry from that you know i'm angry
00:35:45from what
00:35:46for what shut your your phone on my face why i didn't throw it in your face no no you
00:35:56do that you
00:35:56did that i threw it on your lap i didn't throw it in your face you didn't see yourself in
00:36:02this moment
00:36:04is there gonna be room for error with you you can't do that you make a big mistake
00:36:11if that happened with me in egypt with another girlfriend or fiance i will leave it immediately
00:36:24i left all these things work my dad everything to do something like that
00:36:32it didn't feel like it was asking your fiance it felt very do this
00:36:39no that's how i felt if i'm asking you to give me video or photo what's the problem sometimes i
00:36:46don't
00:36:46feel like doing a video or a photo i just want it to be me and you and no camera
00:36:53when the embassy
00:36:56asking you about relation if we are not take a video or camera what you prove to them answer
00:37:11i wanted to get the truck back i was tired i didn't feel like ruined the video
00:37:18that's not excuse i will be angry again so it's enough
00:37:26she didn't say i'm sorry she just said i was tired
00:37:35the woman in egypt and the quran also say the woman should respect the man so much
00:37:44and i think debbie she wasn't with mine for 20 years i think she need to learn yeah
00:37:58this is where we're gonna have to find a way to figure this out because you have the temper i
00:38:04have
00:38:04a temper too from from what if you have a temper from me it's very easy i will pop from
00:38:11tomorrow
00:38:11take it and i will turn back but that can't be the answer for everything you're gonna pack up and
00:38:16go home
00:38:17no i'm not coming to be temper no
00:38:22i don't want you to be upset with me
00:38:27didi i'm not judging you that's okay it's over you know now what you did with me and this is
00:38:35the last
00:38:35time talk about anything you will make make me mad from you you should to know
00:38:43when mido throws that gauntlet down that he's gonna go home it's it's mind-numbingly frustrating
00:38:49how how do you how am i going to argue with that how am i going to
00:38:57tolerate that it's a cop-out and it's an easy way to get your way
00:39:03i want to say something to you and i want to know if you understand what i mean
00:39:09i don't want to be your fan i want to be your wife
00:39:15it's no problem to be my big fan if you are not my big fan what's the problem
00:39:22no i'm not saying there is a problem to be my big fan my my best partner you should to
00:39:29be support
00:39:31i am supportive i just want to make sure that we don't get lost in all of it
00:39:40i should be happy because i have a dream
00:39:48it's more of the same
00:39:51he's bringing up acting again it's like the default to conversation i have a dream too of being happily
00:39:58married that's all i want can i ask you for something no
00:40:10i want my ring
00:40:32it's the first time you're going to meet michael don't go head to head
00:40:35with him because that's only going to end in a very awful way i'm not scared to no one the
00:40:40only
00:40:41thing i can handle is somebody like be disrespectful ultimately the success of this blended family is
00:40:50going to be based on the ability for michael and edward to get along keep the children in mind this
00:40:57conversation with michael is like so critical to the happiness of the entire family
00:41:13i checked many times
00:41:26oh i'm really nervous now i'm scared okay
00:41:32oh
00:41:34ready yeah
00:41:38nice
00:41:40this is cool like a concrete room yeah i was gonna say the first thing you see is concrete
00:41:46i have a bunch of rugs so probably once we can even get more than that yeah it's like loud
00:41:52and
00:41:53concrete yeah it's like the reflections of the the sound
00:41:58overall it's giving like bomb shelter vibes a little bit but it looks like it would stand up to
00:42:03an earthquake yay oh but you wanted an open kitchen i did want an open kitchen i was genuinely like
00:42:13worried that i was gonna like turn up and it would be falling apart why did you think so low
00:42:21of me okay fair
00:42:26i feel like i didn't see a bathroom but there has to be a bathroom yeah i mean
00:42:29i think it's this one oh it's got um yeah that's not the other that's the other bonus of this
00:42:37place
00:42:37i could fit in there that's massive i'm so scared that's my biggest fear getting locked in like
00:42:43a laundry machine and then having them turn it on and me being washed till i die
00:42:48i don't think that's gonna happen
00:42:53okay what do you think of the window situation do you think people will be able to see me naked
00:42:58if
00:42:59i was trying to do strip show i see a random man in a yellow shirt yeah so if you
00:43:07were naked right
00:43:07now do you think he would see you no because he's distracted he's on his phone josh and i have
00:43:14differing opinions when it comes to like saving money or being comfortable i tend to be on the more like
00:43:20saving money less comfort i'm bad at climbing down i'm like a cat but since josh is coming from
00:43:27the uk i don't want him to have to move stuff jet lagged so i hired movers this time but
00:43:33mostly
00:43:34because i didn't want josh to see in my storage unit my stuff has been there for three years and
00:43:39it's
00:43:39pretty gnarly sorry my mattress is nasty looking but it just has permanent stains because what size is
00:43:46um so this size like the mattress yeah this size mattress is a twin mattress okay don't pay attention
00:43:56to the stains sorry they're bad so we'd call that in the uk a single oh for one person you
00:44:02don't have
00:44:02twin size beds so we have single and double so i thought a twin was like you could fit two
00:44:09it kind
00:44:10of sounds like two people i think that katie and i have differences in in terms of like what's
00:44:17acceptable but this mattress was a biohazard you know smells and hair and
00:44:28it's not like i sleep in like dark but it's like i'm trying to defend myself i'm not doing a
00:44:38great job
00:44:42these are my important items guess what's in the box well it looks important what does it say it says
00:44:50is not safe for work and then a shh emoji okay so what's in it
00:45:04what do you think revolver two it's a strap-on creating strapless strap-on dildo
00:45:12i know you've been wanting to play with that for you've mentioned that throughout our travels
00:45:17and now i'm faced with it does it look fun i really don't know whether that's my thing
00:45:26do you want to see the strap-on no do you want to know how it works no look it
00:45:34hooks me and then this
00:45:36goes what do you think are you down no every time i use it it kind of falls out so
00:45:46needs like a diy so it's pre-used
00:45:56well that's uh charming you said you washed it i did wash it smudge there just by the bell
00:46:06ew and it's it's furry it's got fur everywhere okay i boiled this thing
00:46:14yeah so is this what you thought of when you thought of your first night in our apartment
00:46:19um there are elements like
00:46:25like there's um there's a roof um and electricity and water so that's i think it's a little bit better
00:46:33than that yeah it's good i've had my mind set for months now on settling into our apartment and and
00:46:44starting life together in the us so that element i'm really looking forward to but on the other hand
00:46:50last night it's still on my mind i'd made all of these life changes like come over to the us
00:46:57and left a
00:46:58lot of you know friends and loved ones behind and now they need to be able to trust her and
00:47:04she needs
00:47:04to be able to prove that that trust is well placed
00:47:11what's been that beeping sound did you ever figure it out it's super annoying
00:47:14uh i don't think you're gonna like the answer do you want to know sure
00:47:19so you think it's whenever the garage door is operated are you kidding me
00:47:27that's gonna be all night every night we can't turn that off no no
00:47:35that sound is gonna pierce our ears yeah i mean we might we might get used to it
00:47:50oh
00:48:04well i figured since we had our healthy breakfast with protein and protein
00:48:09yeah that we could go for a nice healthy power walk outside and i could show you the
00:48:13neighborhood a little bit and get some fresh air okay got it that gotta be good you have your
00:48:18sneakers you need socks i have socks i hope they're clean socks yeah clean socks okay that's fine
00:48:23all right let's go for our walk
00:48:33all right ready for our power walk okay let's go
00:48:41this is not the pace by the way
00:48:44let's go
00:48:48it's like not a jog but almost like a jog oh jesus come on keep up uh you go too
00:48:57fast no that's the
00:48:58whole point of a power walk pump your arms
00:49:07it's edward's first day in the united states it's a beautiful day out and i thought what better way to
00:49:12get to get to know the neighborhood and a little bit about you know my daily routine than to go
00:49:16for
00:49:16a good power walk what do you think of the neighborhood uh look very nice to be honest with
00:49:22you i like it a lot it's very relaxing um people is very quiet it's very different like my country
00:49:29because everybody's too loud you need to stop say that you walk you've run you never walk you never
00:49:38walk honestly fitness is a big part of my life i love being in shape i am also a bar
00:49:43instructor so
00:49:44that's a huge passion of mine it's it's like your energy the things that you're doing like in the
00:49:48jean you know sometimes i feel like are you a woman or women like inside of you it's crazy so
00:49:53women
00:49:53can't be motivated and strong and i don't say that yes you did i try to say that uh like
00:50:01you are
00:50:01group let's try to i'm trying to come off thank you this is the bus stop where oh that's where
00:50:09the
00:50:09boys like take it well when they get dropped off at the bus it'll be right there at the stop
00:50:12sign
00:50:14if you ever have to pick them up from the bus like that's where you would go okay i wish
00:50:19them
00:50:19they come and come back because i really want to see them um well today i think michael's gonna pick
00:50:25them up from camp and drop them off so actually it's the first time you're gonna see the boys and
00:50:29then
00:50:29you're gonna meet michael how you feel about that can we keep up jeez i just try to have expectation
00:50:38with michael you know i just want that he understand like i'm gonna be a dad you know but i
00:50:44don't try
00:50:45to steal that position that he have with the boys you know yeah i think the kids are more concerned
00:50:49with that than he is but can we stop in the shape for a for a second yeah you need
00:50:56a break uh it sounds
00:50:58too strong i don't i understand i know you don't like the sun yeah take a little bit better oh
00:51:03that
00:51:03feels good to be here first of all like why do you feel like the boys is concerned about that
00:51:10derek has voiced his opinion about this like he just said you know his biggest thing that he said
00:51:14to me is like i just don't want someone to replace dad
00:51:20no i understand like um with the boys i can i feel like maybe you need to teach me in
00:51:26the way that
00:51:26maybe they don't gotta feel like this you know so i know that being a family and being like a
00:51:32father
00:51:32figure to the boys is important to you but i just also want to remind you like things like that
00:51:36will
00:51:36take time with the kids last year she brought the boys and the family to dominica republic and like uh
00:51:43was
00:51:43amazing to be honest they are very different but like everything's so fun i'm gonna be uh stepdad and
00:51:51i need to have a good relationship with them you know like our situation i know that i'm not gonna
00:51:57be the father of them like directly you know but like i just like hope like one day i'm part
00:52:03of the
00:52:03family because like they're still john you know and like i'm not gonna have that again i know
00:52:13at the beginning of the relationship we put everything in the table um and the only big
00:52:19problem that we have is like she have two kids i don't have i really love kids you know a
00:52:26lot in a big
00:52:27big level but i need to make our decisions about what is better for me have the love of my
00:52:36life or
00:52:36the rest of my life or move forward with somebody else because i just want kids so i make my
00:52:43decision
00:52:43and here we are i know that i'm not going to be able to give you a baby you know
00:52:49like i'm not
00:52:50i'm done with having kids and i feel so guilty about that so often and like the best the next
00:52:57best
00:52:57thing is for me to share derek and cole with you and give you that experience of like being in
00:53:03a
00:53:03family with kids and like you know being able to be like a fatherly figure to boys you know so
00:53:08that's
00:53:09important to me too that's why this conversation with michael is like so critical to the happiness of
00:53:13the entire family don't go head to head with him because it's i know him and i know that that's
00:53:19only
00:53:19going to end in a very awful way i'm not scared to no one i think that we can still
00:53:26be a family
00:53:27and edward can have a really great relationship with the boys but ultimately the success of this
00:53:32blended family is going to be based on the ability for michael and edward to get along so
00:53:39i'm really hoping that number one michael can control his temper and i also need edward to be
00:53:45mindful of the way he responds to michael the only thing i can handle is somebody like
00:53:51be disrespectful so like whatever he can say in an aggressive way i just think like
00:54:00i can be aggressive you know i want you to be mature in the situation okay and i want you
00:54:06to like
00:54:07keep the children in mind that it will serve nobody if you two are fighting
00:54:17there are some people that have said some really bad things about you because you come
00:54:21from a muslim country they flat out called you a terrorist it just really hurts when people
00:54:30are just human beings i'm terrified and i'm not putting up with this it wouldn't surprise me if i
00:54:40punched a mother in the face
00:54:59all right baby so you want to go get some coffee downtown yeah um and then later we'll see everyone
00:55:07for your surprise um for your surprise it'll be fun i promise all right
00:55:35can you give me a piece of gum here god yeah this is you ask me yeah thanks
00:55:43extra long logistic
00:55:57okay harder let's go my love let's go
00:56:05so so now we are alone here baby yeah i know nobody here
00:56:12when it rains everybody stays at home nobody wants to leave their house
00:56:17yeah very green from the rain fresh very good because it rains so much in alabama
00:56:23yeah look it says what does that say
00:56:26what america it says god bless america god bless america yeah i hope
00:56:30i'm turkey and turkey yeah let's go in here baby come on in we're open come on in we're open
00:56:43you want to get something yeah hi hi hi good how are you good you want a caramel cappuccino yeah
00:56:54that
00:56:54um not so much sugar that's fine could i do a caramel latte um and i'm fine with sweet
00:57:05good
00:57:06look back look look look this is original yeah it's real can i touch no you can't touch it why
00:57:12can i take
00:57:14picture yeah you can take a picture of it oh when i saw animal huh i said oh my god
00:57:23this is real i am shocked and i am sad you know
00:57:28like good hunters like good hunters they use the meat and they eat the meat not just like
00:57:34okay they if they go hunting yeah they eat everything eyes
00:57:39you guys don't waste uh yeah i know you guys don't waste nothing over there
00:57:48writing yeah look very beautiful i know yeah i like some people but i didn't see redneck people
00:57:58oh you'll see them eventually i promise you you'll definitely see some rednecks tonight
00:58:03and you know there are some people that will be there yeah that have said some really
00:58:09not nice things like i just i just want to be honest with you about that because i love you
00:58:17and i respect you but i also want you to know that i i told mikaela to uninvite these people
00:58:25so what kind of do they will say my behind what what have they said about you they have said
00:58:32bad
00:58:32things about you because you come from a muslim country they judge i just you know like another
00:58:40thing that these people had said was
00:58:45they flat out called you a terrorist
00:58:51i think american people judging all muslim muslim has bad people christian has bad people same we
00:59:01will go to party and they have a so small mind uh i am worried
00:59:08it pisses me off that people are so ignorant to just judging you yeah off the bat from where you
00:59:18come
00:59:19from for me and insulting your family and insulting your country when your family is so beautiful they
00:59:26they've they've they've they've loved me they've been
00:59:41you know they've yeah like ever like even before i met them they were just so lovely to me and
00:59:50it just really hurts when people are just human beings but people that think like that are not
01:00:05my friends yeah i would never associate with somebody who thinks and talks about people like that yeah
01:00:15it's a huge worry that somebody might say something just really cruel and rude to him and i could care
01:00:24less what their opinion is about rosh you know but to rosh it it means a lot he he doesn't
01:00:32like when
01:00:32people judge him i mean i'm terrified but the last thing i'm gonna tolerate is some ignorant
01:00:40backwoods uneducated mother say some silly ass to my future husband honestly like it wouldn't surprise
01:00:47me if i punched a mother in the face i'm not putting up with this
01:00:53i love that i know so much are you excited mom yeah if i do something you gotta be excited
01:01:15i don't know jesus he would have some prayer saying jesus jesus jesus jesus he will have some prayer
01:01:23jesus give me some food to eat he will have some prayer i am very hungry i need some food
01:01:31in my stomach
01:01:32me he will have some prayer she complains about everything i pray that she sleeps the entire time
01:01:52my mom is she's fantastic but she's something else at the same time
01:01:57my mom feels like there is only one way to do anything so if you do anything outside of how
01:02:04she has it in her mind it should be done she's gonna complain about it
01:02:11you got to pack up and go to the gates so she's annoying and she nags a lot but i
01:02:19feel like right
01:02:20now it's just my focus is on me and maxwell's situation which is to decide which direction we're
01:02:27going to go when it comes to these visas well what we finna do
01:02:30we're going to go when they come and bring a snake
01:02:44Oh
01:02:57Oh
01:03:00My name is Maxwell and I am 28 years old and I live in Oka, Nigeria
01:03:14I want to say something like ah you got so big
01:03:21The last time Asia saw me she hugged me and then she was like baby. Why are you looking so
01:03:26skinny?
01:03:30She
01:03:31She can be so pushy with what she wants
01:03:33You know, she feels like there's always an option around things, you know to the point where even when I
01:03:38fall asleep, you know
01:03:42She takes a camera and you know tries to capture
01:03:46The bald parts of my
01:03:50Daddy
01:03:52Let's say ready to go and pick up
01:03:54Asia, are you ready?
01:03:56Let Asia be the person that will not trouble you
01:04:01Yeah, I hope I hope it doesn't get to that
01:04:11Bye guys, bye-bye daddy. Bye-bye mommy. All right. Thank you. Come back. Yeah, thank you
01:04:17So a lot of people say that
01:04:19I should be in the queen
01:04:22There's the response I give there that every queen has a king
01:04:26Yeah, my guy
01:04:27Good morning. How far?
01:04:29Good morning. Oh
01:04:34So we're landing. They just gave us landing instruction. So let me get my seatbelt on
01:04:40I am so tired
01:04:42I am so tired
01:04:43I have to go ahead and start in the bathroom and try to get myself together on the floor makes
01:04:46will see me
01:04:52When they show is around me most times she don't tend to tell me hey you look this way or
01:04:58I don't like the way you look or anything
01:04:59You know she resolves it for when she goes back to the u.s. She's like sweetie. I didn't like
01:05:04the fire you were looking skinny
01:05:06I didn't like the fire your skin was rough
01:05:08You know don't you think we need to fix this you need to do this you need to do that.
01:05:11Yeah
01:05:12Sometimes it's a little bit you know taxing when you have to do this so you need to go pay
01:05:18for a gym membership
01:05:19You need to go get this done. You need to do a spa another like come on. Well, I feel
01:05:24like I need to keep her attracted to me
01:05:31We're in Nigeria
01:05:33Oh Lord, I look so plain. I need some mascara some eyelashes or something in the name of Jesus
01:05:41Are you excited?
01:05:42You're looking
01:05:43This is perfect
01:05:44How that does
01:05:45I am so overwhelmed
01:05:52Butterflies in my stomach
01:05:54picking plenty of noise
01:06:06Closer now
01:06:07Pull me closer than before
01:06:11playing with said
01:06:15When the visa was denied the first thing that came to my mind was
01:06:20Aisha walking away but then she called me we're on the phone and then she was already telling me
01:06:25what is the way forward what are we going to do so instantly I knew that okay we are still
01:06:32in
01:06:32this together but then the situation I mean everything scares me everything appealing is
01:06:39going to take time and it's not guaranteed reapplying is going to take time and it's not
01:06:43guaranteed getting married is going to take time and plenty of resources so nothing is guaranteed
01:06:52I'm excited I'm overwhelmed and I'm mixed with a little bit of nervousness
01:07:11sweetie
01:07:27it has been eight long months and it's been a very very long way but i am so excited i'm
01:07:33finally
01:07:34here with my baby thank you how are you doing all right how are you doing you look so beautiful
01:07:41yes i am i look big right yeah that's what you're supposed to look all right so i think right
01:07:48look at my skin yeah you broke out a little bit right there but the chemical peel did good i
01:07:55look good i know that your hand did not go twice around me right who told you that you look
01:07:58good who told you that these women better not be telling you that
01:08:03it's a big improvement um skin wise we're doing better and i feel like we've got a good program going
01:08:12so i feel like we're going to eventually get the results that we want
01:08:15i can tell for myself like i look good
01:08:20mama you ready to go mama is looking so fine
01:08:23mama i've done that
01:08:25he snuck indeed him
01:08:28the most important thing is that isha is here
01:08:30yeah you know and we're gonna sit back
01:08:33weigh our options see where we'll go from there
01:08:36i feel like the fact that we're together i feel like we're gonna get an answer
01:08:40i already know i already know that god is still gonna figure out a way for us
01:08:44yeah
01:08:46i am hungry
01:08:47really
01:08:50i want to say just once and just one time only when it does come to my kids i'm not
01:08:55texting i'm not calling i'm not knocking on the door i'm kicking the
01:08:58you know i'm coming in hot because they're my kids and i will literally bite someone's face off for them
01:09:04i'm not afraid
01:09:06he can fly i can fly too
01:09:07he don't know me i don't know him but he don't know me too
01:09:25hey
01:09:26hey
01:09:26the boys are gonna be home soon
01:09:28ready
01:09:28i can't wait
01:09:29are you ready
01:09:30yeah
01:09:31just
01:09:33keep things calm
01:09:34keep the peace
01:09:36stay zen
01:09:38oh shit
01:09:39i don't know what like i see that in a movie like
01:09:41it doesn't work
01:09:46sweet dreams america
01:09:50you're nervous
01:09:52i'm not really i mean
01:09:54i'm more nervous about
01:09:57your interaction with the kids
01:09:58michael's
01:09:59that's you know that's gonna go how you decide it's gonna go
01:10:03yeah
01:10:06mom we're home
01:10:08oh they're here
01:10:09hi
01:10:09hi
01:10:10look who it is
01:10:12oh
01:10:15hey how you doing guys good
01:10:16how's camp today
01:10:17miss you guys
01:10:19oh michael
01:10:20how's it going man
01:10:20hey how you doing good
01:10:21welcome man
01:10:22good thank you appreciate it
01:10:23how was the trip
01:10:23oh my trip was good
01:10:24it was fine
01:10:25thank you for bringing it up
01:10:26how's everything good
01:10:27yeah
01:10:27yeah
01:10:27how are the kids
01:10:30normal pain in the ass
01:10:32normal
01:10:32so what do you guys think
01:10:33edward's finally here
01:10:35he's a lot taller than i remember
01:10:37is he
01:10:39so are you
01:10:39well when i just looked at the pictures you guys look the same same height
01:10:42you know
01:10:46i figured like you'd want to show edward some of your skills
01:10:51okay let's go
01:10:52i was very happy to see the boy they jump and they hugged me both
01:10:56but michael the ex-husband at the same time was married with him
01:11:02the first thing they go out of your mouth is like
01:11:07i was thought that you was more little
01:11:12what
01:11:17oh
01:11:17oh that's very cool
01:11:21i'm too old for this but like
01:11:23you're young enough that you can hang with the kids
01:11:25we need you to be the jumper and michael and i'll stay out of it
01:11:30yeah
01:11:36don't forget you said
01:11:37for the rest of your life
01:11:38thick and thin
01:11:40edward come on out
01:11:42making it as awkward as possible
01:11:43i'm afraid you're going to break your neck
01:11:46let's get off the treadmill
01:11:47i feel old for this
01:11:49my first impression to edward is that he seems genuine
01:11:52but i feel also at the same time that i don't know this man
01:11:54i think that it's important that he understands where i come from
01:11:57so yeah we're definitely having a conversation
01:12:02can i go watch my phone open in my room
01:12:04yeah of course
01:12:05can i
01:12:06you too
01:12:07yeah
01:12:07getting bored with adult conversation
01:12:08don't forget you have to read your book
01:12:10oh yeah derek
01:12:10i'm just gonna go get them settled and stuff
01:12:12unpack their bags so
01:12:14you guys need more water
01:12:15can you help
01:12:16take a whiskey
01:12:17ay dios mi
01:12:18i'll be back
01:12:22so what do you think so far
01:12:26i think like everything is
01:12:28is well so far like you know
01:12:30like everybody's very nice
01:12:32very calm with me so far you know
01:12:38i mean look i may not have been the best husband
01:12:41but i try to be the best ex-husband
01:12:43you know what i mean
01:12:43that's good
01:12:46yeah like part of me you know
01:12:48is concerned that you guys are on that honeymoon stage
01:12:51when you're with him every day
01:12:52there's gonna be things that irritate you
01:12:55it's very different
01:12:55just know that energy is real
01:12:57and if you guys are having something the kids feel it
01:13:01and i'll be up front with you man
01:13:02i'm a i'm a fighter type person
01:13:05i'm going to bat for the mother of my kids
01:13:09so my point is is that
01:13:11you know
01:13:12when you get frustrated that way
01:13:15if you guys do have an argument
01:13:18i just i want to say just once
01:13:20and just one time only
01:13:21when it does come to my kids
01:13:23if you get pissed and slap this off the table
01:13:26my kids call and be like dad
01:13:27you know edward just do something
01:13:29edward just cursing and yelling i'm scared
01:13:30i'm not texting i'm not calling
01:13:32i'm not knocking on the door
01:13:33i'm kicking the
01:13:34you know i'm coming in hot
01:13:36because they're my kids
01:13:37and i will literally
01:13:38bite someone's face off for them
01:13:43as a man
01:13:47on sometimes men's feel like
01:13:49show like they can fight
01:13:52somebody gotta be like afraid
01:13:53i'm not afraid
01:13:54he can fight i can fight too
01:13:56he don't know me
01:13:56i don't know him
01:13:57but he don't know me too
01:14:01no like listen like uh
01:14:04this is the reason why i just like
01:14:05it's good that we have this kind of
01:14:07conversation because like at the end of the day
01:14:08we want the same thing you know
01:14:11the kids be so gay
01:14:12mrx will be okay
01:14:14i'm not aggressive you know
01:14:16i can be
01:14:17but like not with women
01:14:19there's no way there's no way there's no way other to put it than like
01:14:22it's it's gonna be tough man
01:14:25you got the two kids
01:14:27you got a wife now you want to please her you want to please them
01:14:30but her parents they're wealthy
01:14:32so for me i always felt like i wasn't good enough
01:14:37um you know her father would make certain little comments
01:14:41i just started my own business and i wasn't really wealthy and i did i you know i'm still
01:14:46not but like i wasn't in a good position and and it just made me feel like low
01:14:50yeah they can make you feel a certain way
01:14:57honestly with you like i'm coming for nothing
01:14:59all the things that you say i have a concern like uh how they gotta look me
01:15:03see half of this cut who cares you know like
01:15:06but here's the thing who cares the only thing that matters is how she looks at you
01:15:10that's good
01:15:10and the way that she looks at you brought you into this home and it brought you around my children
01:15:14got it
01:15:15okay i appreciate that
01:15:16so who gives a
01:15:18got it
01:15:20michael was trying a point to try to intimidate me
01:15:24but he tried to give me advice as well
01:15:28he basically tried to say to me like because they are rich and powerful people here
01:15:34they can make you feel like you are nothing
01:15:39but the difference between me and michael is i know who i am so like i appreciate the advice
01:15:49that michael said to me but i feel that i i don't need it
01:15:59when i see again branding party i don't want to see i hate i don't want to be friends with
01:16:08my wife
01:16:09i need to speak with you
01:16:11all right
01:16:15you don't want to be an asshole
01:16:22you don't want to be a little baby
01:16:26you don't want to be a little baby
01:16:28we had to be a little baby
01:16:30yeah
01:16:31lots of cow farm
01:16:32me
01:16:33me
01:16:33me
01:16:34me
01:16:35me
01:16:35me
01:16:35me
01:16:36me
01:16:39me
01:16:40me
01:16:41me
01:16:41me
01:16:51me
01:16:57me
01:16:59me
01:17:00me
01:17:00me
01:17:00me
01:17:00me
01:17:07me
01:17:10me
01:17:23Welcome to America.
01:17:25Yeah, literally.
01:17:26Literally.
01:17:29You ready to meet everybody?
01:17:31I hope.
01:17:32I am ready to meet you.
01:17:34USA!
01:17:36USA!
01:17:37USA!
01:17:38USA!
01:17:39USA!
01:17:39USA!
01:17:40USA!
01:17:41USA!
01:17:42USA!
01:17:43USA!
01:17:43USA!
01:17:44USA!
01:17:45USA!
01:17:46USA!
01:17:48USA!
01:17:50USA!
01:17:53This is a theme party we call a white trash bash.
01:17:56This is where we try to look like we are the most epitomized Southern people that everybody thinks when they
01:18:02think of Alabama.
01:18:03Uh, just to kind of initiate him into Southern living.
01:18:09Thank you!
01:18:11I'm so happy for you!
01:18:12Nice to meet you too!
01:18:14Hi, it's Randy Lee!
01:18:15Hey, Rick!
01:18:16Thank you!
01:18:16Thank you!
01:18:17Thank you!
01:18:18It is the ultimate welcome to America, and also welcome to the South.
01:18:28Here's your clothes.
01:18:29All your stuff.
01:18:30Ew.
01:18:31You have to change your clothes, okay?
01:18:33You have to change your clothes.
01:18:34You have to dress the part.
01:18:35Come on.
01:18:38Roll time!
01:18:40Roll time!
01:18:42I wanna see...
01:18:44Right there, baby.
01:18:46Oh, baby.
01:18:48You need a time, yeah.
01:18:49Help me, baby.
01:18:50Sorry, my love.
01:18:51This is amazing.
01:18:52Let me get your ratty hair out of the way.
01:18:55I am very handsome.
01:18:56Yeah!
01:18:57I am shocked.
01:18:59Like, far more pounds.
01:19:02Yeah.
01:19:03And...
01:19:04Pat hair.
01:19:05Yeah.
01:19:06Yeah.
01:19:07And...
01:19:08Not much.
01:19:10They have pots.
01:19:11Beer bellies.
01:19:12Beer bellies.
01:19:13They have very big bellies.
01:19:15Come on, Mallory!
01:19:17My wife!
01:19:18My wife!
01:19:19Woo!
01:19:19Woo!
01:19:22Woo!
01:19:23Woo!
01:19:24Woo!
01:19:25What is this?
01:19:27It's a beer can!
01:19:30So beautiful.
01:19:32I love you.
01:19:33That took some real brain power.
01:19:37Thinking of, you know, using a beer can as a hair curler.
01:19:40Howdy, let's go outside.
01:19:42I'm really happy that Rosh is happy.
01:19:45He's like, oh my gosh, everyone's dressed up, I think?
01:19:48Or do some people actually really dress like this?
01:19:50And honestly, it just depends on the day, probably.
01:19:53But, um...
01:19:54No, I'm really excited that we're throwing this party for him
01:19:56and that he seems happy about it.
01:19:59Woo!
01:20:01Woo!
01:20:03Woo!
01:20:04Woo!
01:20:04Woo!
01:20:04Woo!
01:20:06Woo!
01:20:10Woo!
01:20:11Woo!
01:20:12Woo!
01:20:13Woo!
01:20:13Woo!
01:20:19Woo!
01:20:24Woo!
01:20:25Woo!
01:20:27Woo!
01:20:28Woo!
01:20:29Shotgun.
01:20:31I tried this.
01:20:33Mamma mia.
01:20:35Really.
01:20:36I can't believe they drink very crazy.
01:20:40Yeah.
01:20:41They drink, yeah.
01:20:41They drink alcohol like a fish drinks water.
01:20:44Yeah.
01:20:44Yeah.
01:20:45He wants to try your drink.
01:20:47Do you want to drink?
01:20:48Yeah.
01:20:49I want to try.
01:20:50All right.
01:20:52Ahh!
01:20:53Ahh!
01:20:54I'm in shock.
01:20:55This is very good, very salt, like siwet.
01:20:59Like, uh, how I can say, uh, milk and, uh, sugar.
01:21:11No.
01:21:12No.
01:21:12No.
01:21:12Too much like licorice.
01:21:13Yeah, exactly.
01:21:14That's what Marie said.
01:21:15No licorice.
01:21:15She said it's just like licorice.
01:21:17All right.
01:21:18Not the, not the peach.
01:21:19Just the sip.
01:21:20No, no, no.
01:21:21Just the sip.
01:21:22Not the peach.
01:21:23No, no, no.
01:21:24That is what we're about to do.
01:21:26No licorice.
01:21:27Uh, okay.
01:21:28Not licorice.
01:21:28Yeah.
01:21:29Right?
01:21:29He's got Jim Beam.
01:21:31Okay.
01:21:33American whiskey.
01:21:36Let's go for it.
01:21:42What do you say?
01:21:44This is normal whiskey.
01:21:45Yeah.
01:21:46Normal whiskey.
01:21:46Whiskey.
01:21:49Why Brandy is here?
01:21:51First time he come my house without asking, without calling.
01:21:57And when I see again Brandy in party, I don't wanna see.
01:22:02I hate.
01:22:04What?
01:22:05What?
01:22:05I need to go speak with your Brandy.
01:22:09Okay.
01:22:10Yeah.
01:22:10Okay.
01:22:11Okay.
01:22:13This is weird for me.
01:22:16I don't like.
01:22:20Okay.
01:22:21Hi, man.
01:22:22What's up?
01:22:25It's okay.
01:22:28I need to speak with you.
01:22:31All right.
01:22:39He did the prime thing of insulting a man in the south, of sitting on a man's tailgate,
01:22:47uninvited.
01:22:49It's just something you don't do down here because it's disrespectful.
01:22:55I don't want to be, how I can say.
01:23:00You don't wanna be an asshole.
01:23:03I have a problem with you.
01:23:08I think it was intentional to kind of show me a sign of dominance, which I am not the person
01:23:15for him to do that to because I choose violence any day.
01:23:28Next time on 90 Day Fiance.
01:23:30We got you a present.
01:23:32There's something here.
01:23:33Slide it towards you.
01:23:38What the f***?
01:23:41In the past, I've really struggled with voicing when something bothers me, and I really don't want that to happen
01:23:47in my relationship with Edward.
01:23:50I feel like I wanna tell you something, but I don't know how to approach this topic.
01:23:55Tell me.
01:23:56And I know you don't like when I say this, but I did feel like I have, like, another kid.
01:24:03If you don't wanna take me seriously, then just stop talking to me, all right?
01:24:07I'm gonna leave.
01:24:09He make a very big scene, and I was like, oh, this is a bad sign.
01:24:18I guess I just don't trust you yet with money.
01:24:21I'm being very trusting after everything you've done, like, with guys.
01:24:26And then you can't have a little bit of trust when it comes to finance.
01:24:31It's a small f***ing expense.
01:24:33I don't want to fight over it.
01:24:35Especially when her argument is, oh, it's stupid.
01:24:39It's not.
01:24:42Do you know that your dad told me that last month he was cheated on me?
01:24:48I felt that I was gonna have to be the bearer of bad news.
01:24:52I've sat behind the phone and watched him lie for years.
01:24:57Angie, is that true?
01:25:01Did you have an affair with my future husband?
01:25:07I'm just frustrated.
01:25:09No!
01:25:10You can f*** that slut in Egypt, but you can't be compassionate with me?
01:25:14Get out!
01:25:16F*** you.
01:25:17You should push me too far.
01:25:19It's finished. It's over.
01:25:20I'm done with the whole f***ing thing.
01:25:22He's going home.
01:25:30I'm Laura.
01:25:30I'm.
01:25:30I'm.
01:25:31You.
01:25:31I'm.
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